ok correct me if im being paranoid but if u saw <3 thankyou for being you <3 on ur bfs profile from another girl what would u think\ do?? i trust my bf totally as he nos how much hurt ive been through in the past but does this sound a bit dogey to you ?? this was on facebok and she is always "liking" his status`s help?!?!

i no its totaly non preg related but wanted ur advice before i confront him on it thanks in advance xx



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Maybe she just fancies him. I would look a bit further into it before I go accusing him of foul play. If she makes you uncomfortable, ask him eto take her off his friends list. If he raises an issue, maybe there is more to it. I wouldnt worry just yet

same advice as above she may just fancy him

I'd say she fancied him too, maybe bring it up in a jokey way with your oh?

did she write it on his wall or is it a sticker type thing? if she wrote it id ask him what its about (calmly) and then remove her from his friends if it was a sticker she may have sent it to all her friends?

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With the relationship that my husband and I have I would just laugh and ask if that was his new girlfriend. You can get the jest of it through the way he answers. It could definitely be one sided for her and he might also be dense to what she's doing or not even care enough what she is doing.

Whatever you do, be calm at first especially since you trust him

girls that's ridiculous. I tell it to my friends, including guy friends all the time, when they are being supportive or helping me with something, it's just a token of appreciation. Please don't even pay attention to that. You have a whole life with him ahead of you and there will be issues as is, this is not the one!

It's a tough one, because it could be totally innocent. He could have just helped her out in a sticky situation and she hadn't had a chance to thank him. In most cases it would be innocent. I have a close relationship with a load of guys (as in hugging, calling pet names, but all jokingly), and I put kisses after one of my messages on their facebook, and his girlfriend had a go at him for cheating.

SHe was going "who's this Lara person, and what's she doing kissing you?"
He was obviously confused, and when she showed him the message, he said "oh, you mean James' wife Lara?"
When she remembered who I was, she realised she'd jumped to conclusions.

Approach it in a sensitive way if you do ask him, because accusing him won't do anyone any good. Whatever you do don't remove her from his friends list, and don't insist that he removes her. That shows that you actually don't trust him, and you want them having nothing more to do with one another. If my husband made me stop being friends with someone on Facebook I would strongly question our relationship. And even if he puts up a fight about it, it does not mean he's cheating on you with her. I would put up a fight if my husband asked me to remove any of my friends from Facebook. He simply has no right to ask me if I'm not cheating. My husband is actually friends with his ex on there, and she still holds a candle for him and is continuously flirting with him, but I trust him and I know it's one-sided. You have to show that you trust him, as well as saying it.

Could be totally innocent and silly, but if it makes you uncomfortable just casually ask him about her comment. Dont stress over it :-)

I say it to people now and again and I feel it is a completely innocent way of showing gratitude for someone helping me/listening to me or just lifting me out of a mood. It is really difficult sometimes to look at things on the internet or on a text message and get the real meaning but I would agree with lanaross. You cannot take messages you read and instantly know the context in which they are meant. I have lots of male friends on facebook and often find myself saying stuff that if just read on it's own would sound really odd but when taken in the right context is perfectly normal! Don't stress honey, there is more than enough to worry about for you at the mo with bubs on the way without you getting yourself in a tizz over something that is probably totally innocent xxx