tb42

I'm out of control. My OH just drives me crazy, or all men are like this. He doesn;t listen when i talk, or he just interrupt and talk about something else like he doesn't hear what i was saying. Tonight, on the way back home , in the car i told him to turn right to get some dinner, and he said "here?" ( he was turning left ), i said "no" turn right, and he said "here?" and he was turning left and i got a bit angry then, and he said "OH! i don't know they sell some food there", so i said i told you to turn right not left, "oh! sorry" he said.
then came home , i was showing him a video on youtube.com and the girl was singing, then he walked away after 10-15 seconds, i said "she's only 6 years old, you know? and she won the contest", no reply from my OH
i got so angry with him. I know my hormones make it worse but it's him too that make me angry. He always hear when i talk to the dogs, like tonight i said to the dogs "i'm taking you two to sleep soon" . my OH was asleep he said "i'm not sleeping", i told him i talked to the dogs not him.
after work, he took customer back to hotel and he called me saying he's picking me up on the way to see our friend's ney born baby. and an hour later he called me to go out and get something to eat. Guess what he's doing , he was drinking beer with his friend. i knew it though, but i never put grumpy face in front of his friends because i have respect for him. But why he keeps doing all these stuffs all the time. i always got angry, but now it gets to the point that sometimes i would bang things in the kitchen, or kick the cupboards :LOL: and he still doesn;t hear i do that, because he;s watching TV./

Sorry girls that i bring this out like this, but i had dinner tonight and i didn't look at him because it would have made me mad. Now he's sleeping with his work clothes on, no shower. GREAT NIGHT!!!

PS: i know he won't change

Jenny

Aww hon My hubby can be the same way, he can be distracted so I just nag him until he listens to me . You're right though, the hormones do make it worse and sometimes I just pick a fight with him because I feel like a total cow. I'm sure after the baby comes things will settle down .

tb42

i know even know the hormones make it worse. i still can't calm myself down until i sleep.If he made me mad when he's home and i try to stay away and do something else, but i still get angry because he's still there. i posted the same post before and i got some advice, many times it doesn't work though