Loved ones that have passed away - Page 3

loulou1979 · Nov 10th, 2009, 16:09 PM

Hi hun. It sounds like there are a lot of us out there who will be missing a special someone when their little one arrives. My brother passed away a week before his 6th birthday, I was 7 at the time. 23 years on and I still miss him so much and it hurts to think my baby will not know their brilliant uncle. My brother had such a tough short life and spent most of it in hospital. But even going through this he always kept a smile on his face and made sure those around him had a smile on their face too. If we have a boy, we'll be giving him the name David as his middle name in his memory.

Big hugs to all those who have lost someone close to them. xxx

Sammy2009 · Nov 10th, 2009, 17:46 PM

My dad died on the 26th October last month... I would have loved for him to see his last grandchild just once

XxxIM08-09xxX · Nov 10th, 2009, 20:20 PM

Sammy, so sorry for the recent loss of your Father ((hugs)).

It is so sad that loved ones who supported us through our infertility struggles are not here to see the end result - our little babies. My DH's parents were so good to us and helped us so much when we were struggling to conceive and going through IVF - but I believe they will see their new grandchild, just as you Dad will from heaven

sabriena · Nov 10th, 2009, 20:45 PM

I definitely know what you mean. I lost my gramps this year in January to throat cancer. He was a fantastic man who seemed to know just about everything and loved his grandkids with all his heart. I wish that he were going to be able to meet my baby when he/she is born. Although, I do think he will meet my baby I just wish he were physically here.

This really is the first family death that I have had to deal with, with being to someone so close to us. I still cry hysterically about losing him as we all do and it hurts he won't be here with us and this joyous occasion.

However, he was still alive to meet my nephew and loved him to bits even though he suffered from dementia as well.

Everyone we lose is still around though.

future_numan · Nov 11th, 2009, 22:39 PM

My hubby and I tried to conceive for a long time and when I was in the room with my very dear grandmother ( who I was very close to) as she took her last breath in Feburary of this year. I asked that she keep watch over us and if at all possible send us down an angel...well I am due to have this baby exactly one year to the day of her death..I think she has helped us from heaven above and will forever watch over our little girl because she is her guardian angel..

jaccib · Nov 12th, 2009, 05:16 AM

I know first hand too!

My uncle died when I was 5 months pregnant with my daughter 12 years ago........I was his first niece and was so close to him........

I also lost both my grandparents some time ago and miss them all dreadfully.

This time my partners father died 3 years ago from prostrate cancer and also so did my husband in an accident!

I am certain they are all watching down on us and willing us all to be healthy and safe.

hellohefalump · Nov 12th, 2009, 07:24 AM

My stepfather passed away a year ago...

If he had had a boy (he had a girl), he wanted to call him Jasper, after one of his ancestors. My OH doesn't like the name, so Jasper is going to be one of the middle names for my baby.

Nov 10th, 2009, 16:09 PM	#21
loulou1979 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 654	Hi hun. It sounds like there are a lot of us out there who will be missing a special someone when their little one arrives. My brother passed away a week before his 6th birthday, I was 7 at the time. 23 years on and I still miss him so much and it hurts to think my baby will not know their brilliant uncle. My brother had such a tough short life and spent most of it in hospital. But even going through this he always kept a smile on his face and made sure those around him had a smile on their face too. If we have a boy, we'll be giving him the name David as his middle name in his memory. Big hugs to all those who have lost someone close to them. xxx

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Nov 10th, 2009, 17:46 PM	#22
Sammy2009 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Holland (native English) Posts: 1,904	My dad died on the 26th October last month... I would have loved for him to see his last grandchild just once

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Nov 10th, 2009, 20:20 PM	#23
XxxIM08-09xxX Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: SCOTLAND Posts: 178	Sammy, so sorry for the recent loss of your Father ((hugs)). It is so sad that loved ones who supported us through our infertility struggles are not here to see the end result - our little babies. My DH's parents were so good to us and helped us so much when we were struggling to conceive and going through IVF - but I believe they will see their new grandchild, just as you Dad will from heaven

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Nov 10th, 2009, 20:45 PM	#24
sabriena Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Indiana, USA Posts: 1,331	I definitely know what you mean. I lost my gramps this year in January to throat cancer. He was a fantastic man who seemed to know just about everything and loved his grandkids with all his heart. I wish that he were going to be able to meet my baby when he/she is born. Although, I do think he will meet my baby I just wish he were physically here. This really is the first family death that I have had to deal with, with being to someone so close to us. I still cry hysterically about losing him as we all do and it hurts he won't be here with us and this joyous occasion. However, he was still alive to meet my nephew and loved him to bits even though he suffered from dementia as well. Everyone we lose is still around though.

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Nov 11th, 2009, 22:39 PM	#25
future_numan Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 2,760	My hubby and I tried to conceive for a long time and when I was in the room with my very dear grandmother ( who I was very close to) as she took her last breath in Feburary of this year. I asked that she keep watch over us and if at all possible send us down an angel...well I am due to have this baby exactly one year to the day of her death..I think she has helped us from heaven above and will forever watch over our little girl because she is her guardian angel..

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Nov 12th, 2009, 05:16 AM	#26
jaccib Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Northamptonshire Posts: 1,287	I know first hand too! My uncle died when I was 5 months pregnant with my daughter 12 years ago........I was his first niece and was so close to him........ I also lost both my grandparents some time ago and miss them all dreadfully. This time my partners father died 3 years ago from prostrate cancer and also so did my husband in an accident! I am certain they are all watching down on us and willing us all to be healthy and safe.

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Nov 12th, 2009, 07:24 AM	#27
hellohefalump Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,814	My stepfather passed away a year ago... If he had had a boy (he had a girl), he wanted to call him Jasper, after one of his ancestors. My OH doesn't like the name, so Jasper is going to be one of the middle names for my baby.

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