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Old Oct 3rd, 2009, 15:04 PM   #1
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Bloody annoyed Rant :(


I am sick to death of my boyfriends mother. First off, when we told her i was expecting she told me to have an abortion and told me i was ruining not only my own life, but hers and her sons! Even though my boyfriend was over the moon. She continued to pester me to have an abortion, rather than go speak to my mum or someone.
THEN, when i told my mum and my mum was happy and supportive, she said i was having a phantom pregnancy! Isnt it only dogs that bloody have them?! I was like, uh yeah sure SEEING AS IM THE SIZE OF A FRICKIN HOUSE EVEN THOUGH IM USUALLY SKINNY AS HECK!!
When we got the 20 week scan and showed her the picture she seems a little okay, but NOW its apparently not my boyfriends!
Uh yeah sure, seeing as ive only ever been with one other guy apart from him and that was a year and a half ago? Miricle baby, been up there nearly two bloody years then. She is driving me mental! Not only is she peeing me the hell off, shes upsetting my boyfriend and making my boyfriends dad feel awkward because he's excited!! URGH, if i was pregnant id slap her across the blooming face. Shes getting right on my nervs lately and i am sick to death of her.

Rant over. I needa hot choclate now


 
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Old Oct 3rd, 2009, 15:07 PM   #2
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Aww hun god i would have stabbed your boyfriends mum by now. She really needs to grow up and lay off you because you don't need her doing that to you.


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 05:53 AM   #3
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I hope she sincerely regrets her behavior and the way she's treating you when there's a cute little baby and neither you or your OH are keen on her spending much, if any, time with her grandchild because of it.


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 05:57 AM   #4
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Oh god....she sounds i nightmare,i will never complain about my OH mother now as she is not as bad as yours.

She needs to back off,you don't need this stress.


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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 06:11 AM   #5
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She sounds even worse than my MIL!! What a nightmare!! She's just gonna have to get over it lol. As long as everyone else is excited then she'll probably give in because she won't wanna look silly.
Chin up and don't let her get to you (if possible, I know it's easier said than done lol). Enjoy your hot chocolate xx


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 06:16 AM   #6
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What an evil witch she is being , you should tell her if thats how she feels then she wont want any part in your babies life . I have to hand it to you i would have gone for her by now . maybe you should ask oh to have a word with her as you dont need this and if not stay the hell away from her and if his dad wants to be involved tell him he is more than welcome at your home xxx


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 06:29 AM   #7
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What a b... witch! I cannot believe she is trying to ruin such a happy time for you guys. She's probably just bitter because she knows you and the baby will be more important to her son than she is! Honestly, some people are just horrid!


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 09:50 AM   #8
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What a witch! I'd say to her, quite nicely, that if she hasnt got anything nice to say, then to not speak to you.

You dont need that kinda crap, when we're already hormonal!!


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 11:26 AM   #9
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I agree with all of the advice above.
If I were in your situation, I would have told her to bugger off by now!
It's too bad that she can't be happy for you and OH. If that's the case though, I'd tell her that she can either start playing nice, or she won't have access to your LO.
Play hardball with her, and I'll bet she'll back down pretty damn quick!


 
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Old Oct 4th, 2009, 12:22 PM   #10
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What an evil witch she is being , you should tell her if thats how she feels then she wont want any part in your babies life . I have to hand it to you i would have gone for her by now . maybe you should ask oh to have a word with her as you dont need this and if not stay the hell away from her and if his dad wants to be involved tell him he is more than welcome at your home xxx
I agree totally.


 
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