On a side note:
OP, I don't think anyone here would 'give you crap' for refusing a PAP smear as that is absolutely YOUR decision.
I think it's great that you can discuss whatever you like on this board without people immediately jumping down each others' throats just because they have a different opinion. It's so good that you can just come on here to DISCUSS things, rather than have a huge ranting argument with each other as very often happens on other boards - when people will often 'take sides' and start flaming each other. On those boards, I'm often afraid to post what I think for fear of getting abuse for it. Anyway... I must be feeling a bit emotional and sentimental today, so there you go

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