socophoenix

i have the exact situation, only with two girls.
my ex has a son ny an ex. shes always been a bitch but he gladly pays child supprot to see his child. she just took full custody knowing he cant go to court(past warrants) bc she found out i was preg last august. after i lost that one (he blames her for the stress) i just couldnt b with him, it hurt too much cuz he reminded me of my lost baby. we were apart for a few months and in that time he got with the CRAZIEST female ive ever met. he left her and we got back together and she recently found out we were TTC again. shes been on myspace and emailing and calling him telling him she loves him and that all im gonna do is kill more of his children and he'll never get the family he wants with me. I HATE HER. and ive never hated anyone. dont get me wrong he loves me more than anything but i kno with his babymama bitch in his ear hes dying over his son, he was his heart. now here she comes....trust me, jealous women are capable of doing ANYTHING.
the best thing both of u can do is ignore her when it comes to everything except his daughter. otherwise she'll never stop.
im here for u if u ever want to chat

Rumpskin

Dont let your OH's ex ruin what should be the happiest time of your live (congrats on your engagement).

She is obviously warped/jealous/both and needs to get a life.

Hopefully all will work out well for all.

Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and focus on looking after yourself, OH and LO.

Bash a few pillows - that should do the trick!

xxxx

nikkybaby

I'm sorry you have to deal with that jealous bulls**t. Just remember, she is probably miserable as all hell, and she's probably trying to bring someone down with her, and seeing as you two are happy, she is shooting for him...if that makes any sense. Anyways....ignore the b*tch. If she continues, I would step in, but otherwise, stay happy. Congratulations on your engagement too!!!

cparks1

That is a terrible situation to be in. Is the daughter old enough to call her dad and let him know if something is wrong? Maybe you two can get proof that the mother is unfit to raise this child. No child should be abused in any way and no good mother would make up such a ridiculous lie about the father. That woman sounds like she is very shallow and will use their daughter to get what she wants from your OH. It sounds like she is jealous that he is moving on. I hope everything works out with his daughter and I hope that you can deal with this selfish woman who doesn't deserve an ounce of your time. You have every right to feel the way that you do.

Also, I just wanted to say, congrats on your bump and your engagement. I hope you get to enjoy both. Just remember not to let that miserable woman bring you down to her level, that is what she is trying to do because she is miserable herself.

horrorheart13

His daughter is 9 but her mom does everything she can to keep her from getting any info on him. I'm sure as she gets alittle older she's going to start asking questions and eventually find out where he is herself. It's such a sad story. I just wish she'd stop being such a miserable, jealous c*nt and try to get along better with him for the sake of their daughter, without trying to make it seem like our LO is less important.

I haven't said a word to her *yet* and i hope i don't have to. Still very happy about engagement and LO moves so much it's impossible to forget for a second that he's there So despite this woman, I'm a pretty happy camper