coccyx

having a bit of an off day. Very tearful and lethargic ( breakfast pots still need doing) Am 24 weeks with baby number 4 , and really worried today that I won't cope. Hubby has to work away 4 days a week, hard for him and us. Feeling hopeless, so disorganised at times, nothing bought for new baby yet, lots of bits need finishing off around house which gets me down.
Actually feel better having written it down New day tomorrow. Hubby going to call at 10pm, think he knows I'm having an off couple of days.

kelly2903

me too hun, my oh has 3 kids they stay every weekend and have there own bedroom. obviously i wanted a nursery so having to convert the loft. which is an expense and whole lot of stress cant keep the house tidy for all the dust and crap. and so worried it wont be done in time.

cupcake

aw hun,

you can do it, u have plenty time to buy stuff how about making a list and tackling it bit by bit
also having a talk with hubby about how u feel and ways he can help you to cope with him being away.
my dad was a travelling rep when we were little and was away for about a week at a time and my mom did well.
heres hoping tomorrows a better day for u

coccyx

Have had a good chat with hubby and feel better. Feeling inadequate when I see all the glam mums at the school gate! As my sister says they could be fur coats and no knickers! Think I may miss hubby more than I think, we all had a great weekend as afamily and sometimes just a cuddle can make you feel so much better. I will go and give our dogs a cuddle and then tackle the ironing!

kelly2903

sounds like you could be on to a winner there hun! hope you feel better soon

Vickie

coccyx

Thanks ladies. Hubby says we will put together an action plan to finish off those bits that need doing around the house. Its going to be a long list. Then we will go shopping for baby and me (desperately need new bras!!!)Never find time in the week to go clothes shopping.

luckyme225

I hope you feel better soon. Feeling hopeless is no fun at all. I have horrible days as well from time to time.

supernurse

Sending hugs your way
If you can manage with 3 already I'm sure you'll be fine with another.

Don't even talk about things needin done in the house.
We've only got 2 bedrooms, don't want to move cause we've got such a lovely house.
We have to make the dining room into a kitchen, the kitchen into a bedroom, Rachel will have to move downstairs and the new baby take her room, what a nightmare. And they talk about moving being stressful!!!!!!!