Sorry to rant on here ladies but I'm p*ssed off!!

My OH isn't a big socialiser (or drinker) and if he does go out it tends to be the two of us going together (as we have a lot of mutual friends)

He was invited to a mates BBQ yesterday, but as his mate lives miles away (and we don't have a car) he had to stay the night. I was a bit upset at being left alone, but thought oh well it'll prob be the last big night out he has with his mates before LO is here, so I wouldn't begrudge him it.

He left at Midday yesterday, and promised he'd be back by 2 o'clock today......well he isn't back yet & I just spoke to him and he's leaving soon.....anyway he's in a bad mood as he's been trying to leave for ages, but is relying on his mate for a lift, he's run out of fags, he hasn't eaten all day and is generally in a bad mood through lack of sleep.

Arggh it just winds me up as I know when he does get back he'll be in a foul mood....arghh and then we'll have to spend the evening with the MIL as she always cooks a Sunday roast (we are living with her atm)

Sooo sorry for the long rant, I'm just angry he's been away pretty much all weekend & I have work tomorrow so barely get to see him

Awww hun just think yourself lucky that its only the weekend. I'd give anything for my OH to be here in a mood, just as long as he was here.

My OH left for Afghan beginning of July and I only get to talk to him as and when he can. I don't know what he's doing or if he's safe. I just have to keep hoping everyday and waiting for him to contact me.

He's not back until mid october either I hate it

Just give him a big squeeze tell him you love him and that you're glad to have him home x x x

must be something in the water, havent seen and barely spoken to the OH since wednesday!!, i follow my mums advice, ignore the bad mood as it pulls them outta it when they realise your not bothering your backside!!

awww mariposa, thats a shame, i hope the time til october goes in quickly for you xx

i know the feeling my oh went out last night and did not get in till 3 this morning. i am 1 of these people that cant sleep when he is not home and i had work this morning. was not a happy bunny. after reading mariposa's reply it makes you think. I am going to take her advise and when i get home i am going to hug and kiss my oh loads. Mariposa you are a very strong women. Enjoy october when ur oh is back he is a hero.

Thanks for the grounding advice....your right I should be so grateful he's around.

I hope you have lots of friends & family to keep you company till he gets back.

Awww thanks girls. I do have people around me luckily but its the times when I'm sat watching tv, bedtimes and weekends that are the worst. I can't watch or listen to the news it makes me nervous.

I know all men can be a nightmare at times and give us so much grief but I don't think I'm ever going to moan at that again when he's back.

I'm lucky that he's only doing a 3 and a 1/2 month tour some of them do 6-7 months.

I'd give anything for one of his cuddles right now.....starting to get upset now (silly hormones)

For Steve:
Be safe bub, I love you x x x

awww chick, big hugs from me and a rather active baby bump tonight ...

i took ur advice...i called mine... made me realise i was lucky enough to be able too...hope your ok..

xxxx

Awww excellent hun so how was it? Was he ok?
You seem a lot chirpier now x x

I don't know what I wouldve done without you girls on here. Helps to keep my mind busy x x BIG

sigh our OH they can be just as moody but at least there around & supporting us (HOPE EVERYTHING WILL BE OK )
=]

it could have gone worse but i did get a "love you" twice before hanging up...he sounded a tad like a little lost boy...which almost made me feel guilty...but it was his silly fault!!

i am...the girls on here have cheered me up and made me feel better knowing im not as alone as i felt this morning...

xxxxx