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i would discuss this with your parents and see hwat they day also next time he txts you say to him that your prepared to discuss your future and babys in the presence of both of your parents so that everything said is heard by both sets of parents then he cant do or say anyhing awful to you.
he doesnt have any right to demand anything from you, you just look after yourself and baby. xx

first off you are baby's mom!
whatever happens you will be the first to decide what when and where.. he will not be able to take her away!

Second, i agree with the above poster... get both parents to sit with you both around the table and discuss this.. if his parent cant come or he is refusing to take them you can tell him you can draw up a mutual agreement via court or lawyer..

Not to make things hard but to make things fair.. honestly i do not see this working out .. he is obviously not mature enough to fess up and treat people with respect (not the kind of example you want your baby to have!)

He is the one who has to worrie and put the effort in, not you! Let it slide send him a letter or email explaining this and he can come back to you with a plan!
This must be so hard for you youll get through, there are so many strong woman on this forum that re going through similar situations too!

I am so sorry this has happend to you. I really hope things work out for you and your little one on the way. If I might offer some advice my first pregnancy was a somewhat similar situation. I left my xhusband only to find out I was pregnant 2 weeks later. ( I was only 18 he was in the military) We had discussed trying to work things out but I slowly started to hear about all the other girls.. so I faced my entire pregnancy and delivery with close family no daddy. It was very difficult but I can honestly say now looking back at that situation over 5 years ago I know I made the right decision to let him go. He sees our daughter almost everyother weekend and she loves him so I am happy he is involved in her life but I know we wouldn't have worked out. Once he broke my trust there was no going back. You deserve to be happy and with someone who loves you and that little one on the way. Please dont go back with him just because of the baby( this almost never works out). I really wish you the best remember go with your heart. Prayer really helped me being a single mom was very hard at times but you can do it!!! And I agree with the advice above... Dont let him talk you into something you dont want to do!

This guy sounds like a joke! I'd ignore his stupid a** and get on with my own life. If he wants to take legal action to see his child then so be it but don't be bothered with him until he goes to that extent.

Hope it gets better.

I'm with shaunanicole... forget the chump. Don't reply to his texts, unless they are about the baby. Just completely ignore him. If he wants to ignore that he's helped create a child then treat him just the same. I really don't think he's going to try to take your baby considering he's showing absolutely no interest right now. You don't need to push him away, he's doing that all on his own.