First of all . If your doc is making you feel awful like that I would definietly switch. NOONE has the right to make you feel like that, let alone your doctor!

I'd say find someone who is more caring and sympathetic. Maybe a midwife is a good way to go.

Do you think a midwife will take my case now at 24 weeks?

no idea because i am only with my regular physician for now. i get referred to an obgyn later on when i am 25 weeks.

call around and ask.

You should find someone else. I am using a midwife, and I am so much happier than I know I would have been with an OB. My midwife is a bit of a nut, but she is very caring, and I totally trust her with my body and my baby. Each appointment is at least an hour, and she looks after my total health, physical, mental and emotional. My advice would be to call around and speak to any midwives or birthing centers in your area.

Aww, Van.. so sorry to hear that your doctor's are dipsticks! Definitely switch, girl. Nobody should make you feel bad about who you are and nobody should ever make you feel as though they "hate" you. Look into the midwife thing, you may still be able to find one-- I don't see why you wouldn't be able to. I'm not all too familiar with midwives though as they don't have them in my region. If not, just switch doctors, there's nothing wrong with that.

Keep your chin up girl.. don't let idiots get you down! Hope your husband won't be gone too long

I would call around and see if you can find someone, those doctors sound very unhelpful. I hope you find someone!

I would call around and find someone else. You should always be comfy with your dr!

I would think if you are not high risk, someone would pick you up. You have to be comfortable with your doctor. This is the person you have to deal with when you are the most vulnerable and in the hardest position.