Sorry I Dont know what to say huni, its soo difficult to imagine what your going through but i was just worried with you saying you kinda expected it, if you suspect he will do it again I would give him a fright and end it, if he loves you that much he will grovel and beg your forgiveness.. both my friends have been in the situation and after giving them a fright they did take them back and they are fine now but everyone is different i suppose . xx

This one I have been through so maybe I can offer some insight.

When I was pregnant with our first daughter DH (not DH at the time) cheated on me when I was 7 months pregnant, twice with the same person.
I had known, that gut feeling that something had happened, but he did not admit it to me until 6 months later when I confronted him with proof.

I tired to hard at the time to forgive him, but I was so angry, hurt, confused. About 4 days after it happened was when I got so pissed I tried to beat the crap out of him. I have never felt so betrayed and hurt in my life. We tried to work things out but it didn't work at that time. I was pissed, didn't trust him, and everything went sour.

His "reason" for cheating on me... because he wanted to get it out of his system before the baby was born. Bullshit excuse if you ask me but whatever.

For a year and a half we stayed friends, hung out, and were room mates at times and "F" Buddies (get what I mean?) Slowly over time my trust in him picked back up, we got along wonderfully again. It took a lot of work to make us work and the only reason it did was because he waited. During the year and a half time he only had sex with one person besides myself. He was single and could do as he pleased but wanted to wait me out.

In Febuary of 08 I proposed to him and we were married in Aug of 08. I still have trust issues and being pregnant again brings them up sometimes. Our daughter is now 4... So it took us close to 3 years to work through one time of cheating.

If you want to fix it, he has to prove himself to you... IT TAKES TIME to work through all the anger and hurt to find yourself in a wonderful relationship on the side of everything.

What an a**ehole !

It's such a breakdown of trust and you have to seriously think about whether you can forgive and forget because you can't throw it up in arguments for the rest of your days together.

Best of luck with your decision bub and do whatever feels right for you - I'd get him out of the home to give you some breathing space whilst you make your decision though - it's on your terms remember x

I hope you're able to make a decision you're happy with. Good luck

I woudl kick his ass to the curb! he cheated on his pregnant girl! he is bad!