I just dont feel happy at all - Page 4

vix1989 · May 28th, 2009, 10:08 AM

yer i know but like i said before we have done so much to try to get another job what more can i do??? he basically lives in the job centre! its not like hes claiming dole and laid in bed all day! hes doing things for friends of family just to earn the odd tenner.
hes asking his boss everyday if theres extra hours with no luck.
i appretiate that you obviously work hard and everything but we are trying our best and its very hard.

vix1989 · May 28th, 2009, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by aimee-lou

Hiya hun....

I saw your post and it was lke me typing it!

Just recently the world has opened up and swallowed us. I've been signed off sick which has meant our income has lost almost a third of it's value. I have spent the last hour or so looking at all of our income and outgoings, seeing what we can live without, looking at everything, moving things about and making sure we can live.

The only 3 bills you cannot avoid......Rent, Council tax and the weekly shop!!

Everything else, there are ways and means.

I would go onto moenysavingexpert.com and join the forum. It's such a good site and can offer you no end of hints and tips.

Keep the chin up, money will come and have faith...sorry it's not got a lot of substance but without looking in detail at your situation I couldn't say how to make ends meet a little more closely....I know for me there is about 5 miles between ends at the moment!!

You are by no means alone and everyone has either been there, is there or will be there shortly.

awww no its not your problem to tell me how to make end meet lol dont worry
thanks for your support!
good luck with you!

moomin_troll · May 28th, 2009, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by vix1989

yer i know but like i said before we have done so much to try to get another job what more can i do??? he basically lives in the job centre! its not like hes claiming dole and laid in bed all day! hes doing things for friends of family just to earn the odd tenner.
hes asking his boss everyday if theres extra hours with no luck.
i appretiate that you obviously work hard and everything but we are trying our best and its very hard.

tell me about it thats why i have to work so far away. Hope he gets more work and things start looking up

vix1989 · May 28th, 2009, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by moomin_troll

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Originally Posted by vix1989

yer i know but like i said before we have done so much to try to get another job what more can i do??? he basically lives in the job centre! its not like hes claiming dole and laid in bed all day! hes doing things for friends of family just to earn the odd tenner.
hes asking his boss everyday if theres extra hours with no luck.
i appretiate that you obviously work hard and everything but we are trying our best and its very hard.

tell me about it thats why i have to work so far away. Hope he gets more work and things start looking up

thank you i hope everything works out with you 2. it cant be easy!

moomin_troll · May 28th, 2009, 10:22 AM

lifes never easy for anyone as they say u never get out of life alive (depressing hahah)

like uve said b4 ur life could be worse but i no it could be better but long as ur babies are cared for (which means u need to eat!) what more can u do

vix1989 · May 28th, 2009, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by moomin_troll

lifes never easy for anyone as they say u never get out of life alive (depressing hahah)

like uve said b4 ur life could be worse but i no it could be better but long as ur babies are cared for (which means u need to eat!) what more can u do

yer i know my kids are my life id always make sure they have everything! no matter what!
im sorry if i was a little snappy with you im just frustrated thats all

you have made me realise to pack it in and starting thinking of others instead of being depressed so thanks

moomin_troll · May 28th, 2009, 15:43 PM

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Originally Posted by vix1989

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Originally Posted by moomin_troll

lifes never easy for anyone as they say u never get out of life alive (depressing hahah)

like uve said b4 ur life could be worse but i no it could be better but long as ur babies are cared for (which means u need to eat!) what more can u do

yer i know my kids are my life id always make sure they have everything! no matter what!
im sorry if i was a little snappy with you im just frustrated thats all

you have made me realise to pack it in and starting thinking of others instead of being depressed so thanks

i didnt notice u snapping at me lol so dont worry about it.

u have a right to stress about ur situation we all need to think of ourselves im the worst for it haha. but theres no point constantly worrying about it only do urself more harm then good.

Babies dont need loads of things and defo dont need expensive things. up until recently zane only had what he needed wen he needed it and i didnt go overboard n hes a happy baby. hes got loads of toys now but is happier with a box and a bottle with dried pasta in it hah

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vix1989 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: East yorkshire, england Posts: 6,200	yer i know but like i said before we have done so much to try to get another job what more can i do??? he basically lives in the job centre! its not like hes claiming dole and laid in bed all day! hes doing things for friends of family just to earn the odd tenner. hes asking his boss everyday if theres extra hours with no luck. i appretiate that you obviously work hard and everything but we are trying our best and its very hard.

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