Im really excited, going straight out with loads of money afterwards to get my nursery sorted! im so excited as is my mum however the babies dad is coming who wants everything to do with his child however hates me with a passion, he is a lier, he has told ppl he wasnt at my first scan as i banned him even though he was sittin next to me holding my hand! and has sed i trapped him and planned the pregnancy as i appernetly told him the first time ihad sex that i loved him and wanted babies with him!

this is upsetting me as theres no way i can prove myself right, but i most definatly said the above! nor trapped him, i didnt want children! i dnt no how to face him!

If you don't want him there then he can't be there.
Good luck tomorrow

How EXCITING!!! I get my sexing scan on the 18th of December. Let us know how it goes!!!

Do you know what babe......STOP worrying about what he is saying and shouting his head off about!! YOU know what the truth is, and can sleep at night and that is all that matters hun. The truth always has a way of coming out in the end......and it will bite him square on his arse when it does!

You look him straight in the eyes and say whatever you want to say......you have nothing to feel bad about nor should you feel awkward! Trust me babe, if he wants everything to do with your baby, you hold all the cards, it is about time he started treating the mother of his child with a bit of respect!

Good Luck tomorrow babe, hope baby plays along and opens wide, then you can also go and enjoy your shopping spree x

Thats what I was thinking! You are the mother of his child, and even if you two aren't together, you deserve respect. And since you are the pregnant one here, you make the appts, and basically call the shots. If he is a jerk, dont include him in this stuff. It sounds like you have a very supportive mom, and she will be there with you. Don't make yourself feel uncomfortable because of a guy. They're not worth it. Good luck tomorrow!! I hope baby cooperates! And I know what you mean about shopping, as soon as we found out, we were shopping all night, and still cant go out without buying more baby things. Have fun!

good luck at your scan tomorrow xx

Good luck at your scan, hope baby lets you see everything & isn't shy, lol!!

Hey amy-lea! I've got my scan today too, and we've got the same due date!
Good luck today, hope your bubs isn't shy

Good luck hun .... you do what is right for you

I have to wait 17 days till my sex scan that is agesssssssssss away

Good luck with your scan!! you too Sara! Hope the bubs cooperate

Amy~ Don't worry about him, he's not worth it. Especially if he can't face up to the fact this baby was wanted. All the baby needs is his/her's loving mama