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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 09:34 AM   #1
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Grrrr


I need to vent!

My friend is over visiting this weekend and announced to me this morning that she wanted me to book her on a flight home a day early! Which I didn't do!
Basically she got very drunk last night and behaved appalling and thought because I was sober I was trying to ruin her night when I was actually looking out for her as she was embarrasing herself!

So this morning she said that she can't cope seeing me married and expecting a baby and that she is very jealous. Now I can understand her issues as most of her friends are married and she's in her late 30's and single and i've tried to be sensitive around her, but she's a nightmare and there is no talking to her and right now she sulking!

So now she is just sitting on the couch feeling sorry for herself nursing a hangover and I have to sit in with her instead of going out for the day as planned with my husband and mother in law on mothers day.

I'm fuming and honestly don't feel like sitting with her for the day!


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 09:42 AM   #2
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oh im so sorry to read that, that is so selfish. I understand the jealousy thing but we should be happy for our friends shouldnt we

i have a friend who does pretty much the exact same thing, i cant even talk about my pregnancy.

Im sorry ur friend is acting like that


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 09:43 AM   #3
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u should go out, let her have some time to think. i am sure she will realise thats shes in the wrong xx


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 10:41 AM   #4
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I agree with Lisa! Let her stew.. and fingers crossed she'll come to her senses!


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 10:46 AM   #5
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dont ruin your day cause its not your fault your freind had to much to drink and now is now acting like a spoilt brat


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 11:27 AM   #6
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I would leave her there on her own for some reflection time.


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 12:21 PM   #7
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I would leave her at home and go out for your mothers day. Let her sulk she was in the wrong. Have a nice day enjoy xxx


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 12:55 PM   #8
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It's funny how pregnancy brings out the jealous streak in some people, a friend of mine and my sister hardly ask how I am or anything baby related and I just know that is the reason - why can't they just be happy for us?

I would just tell her she has upset you and then leave her to come round in her own time and tell her if she wants to go home she has to sort it herself!!


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 13:00 PM   #9
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That sucks.

I would try not to let her ruin your day. That's why she's sitting there. We all deal with things differently, and it's too bad she let her jealousy take over!! I'm sure once she thinks about it for a while, she'll realize she's being unreasonable.

Good luck with everything!!

xx


 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2009, 13:49 PM   #10
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If she wants to go home, then she should be organising her own flight and sorting herself out, shes a grown woman. Its not your fault that you have everything that she wants - i'm sure you have had to work to get to where you are and its awful that she is begrudging you that! xx


 
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