Okie well i had missed my period which is unusual as i never miss my periods i was getting worried days went by and i still hadent come on. And my boyfriend says its best to do a pregnancy test, in town there is a family planning clinic so we both went town and went to the family planning clinc where they told us to come back at 5pm Which we couldnt because ian had work they gave us this card with the days and times they are open.
The night i found out:
The next day ian was at work i was sitting there on the bed looking at this card with the times on anyways i grabbed my coat and started walking to the family planning clinic. All i could think of on the way there is what am i going to do if i am. Anyways i got there had to fill some forms out, then i had to sit and wait for someone to call me it seemed like forever. Anyways my name got called i sat down in the room and she asked me some questions told me to go to the toilet. I had to pee in a pot i brought the pot back in and she got a pregnancy test out and she said what would you do if you was pregnant and i said i dont know. She said your pregnant i turned round and said are you lying she said no im not aloud to and showed me the test. She said goodluck then i walked out and started crying as i was walking i saw people walking with buggys and i just looked down at my tummy. I walked to ians work which took me forever and i walked in and couldnt find him anyways someone he works with was outside and i asked if he could get ian a sec and he said is it important and i said yes and i was sitting there waiting for him. He finally come out and i told him and he hugged me and said we will talk when i get back. I decided to wait for him then we decided to keep the baby. He rung his sister up e.t.c and told them hes going to be a dad and he told his mum and dad.
Telling My Parents
I was so scared of telling my mum and dad because of what they would say, i dident really speak to my mum as she kicked me out and my dad moved out because they split up. I rang my dad up and told him, then a couple of weeks later i told my mum but she already new because of a tarrat card reader told her that im pregnant with a boy.
23-10-07
I went to my GP because i was bleeding a little he asked me a few questions and i was booked in to have a scan the next day to see if everything was okie.
24-10-07
I went to the hospital today at 10:14am to have my scan at 6 weeks at first she couldnt find nothing because i thought i was further on then 6 weeks anyways she looked again and found the sac. She told me to come back 2 weeks later to see if the baby is alright.
8-11-07
Today i went to hospital at 12:10 and had my 8 week scan and she said that everything is fine i saw the heartbeat .
18-12-07
Today i went to the hospital to have my scan she said everything was fine and i saw the babys heartbeat my baby was sitting up the whole time through my scan moving its head. she moved my due date up from 3rd july to 21st june.
5-02-08
Today i went to the hospital to have my 20 week scan and to find out the sex. She checked the babies spine and the babys arms and legs e.t.c. and everything was fine. Then she told me im having a girl which im pleased about i went and got a pink piggy bank so i can put money in for her, a pink outfit, some pink socks and shoes.
13-02-08
Just booked a holiday for september so when she is 3/4 months she will be going on holiday . Its just to one of those haven sites im so excited :P.
28-02-08
I went to my midwife appoitment and she was talking to me about have i felt her kick yet, have i been to any classes e.t.c and i asked her where i can get a 4D scan done from and she gave me a few numbers. Then she checked babies heartbeat when she put the doppler on my belly she must of pushed down near her and she kicked me twice.
12-03-08
Today i went to hospital because i was bleeding and i had to do a wee sample then they checked babies heart beat and did an internal examination to see if the bleeding had stopped. I am booked in for a scan tommorrow at 10am.
13-03-08
Today i went to the hospital and the lady checked the babys heartbeat and everything was fine then i went straight threw to have my scan. They said i hadent drank enough while they was scanning to see if the placenta was lying low. I goes to her could you just tell me again what im having please and she said deffernatley a boy. I was shocked because last time i got told i was having a girl so i had to go in waiting room and drink some more water. They shouted my name and it was time for me to go back in for my scan it was a different lady this time the one who told me i was having a girl on my 20 week scan. I goes could you just check one more time what im having and she said a lil boy and she said everything is fine.