Had a bit of a rubbish day today.
This morning in bed hubby was cuddling up to me and we were chatting. He said that he felt like we weren't very close at the moment. I thought he meant physically but he said he meant as in time spent together. I calmly pointed out to him that it was difficult to get an enormous amount of quality time, when every evening or weekend he's busy doing his own stuff. He plays footie friday and cricket all day saturday and some times all day sunday. Over the bank holiday he played golf....are you getting that he's sporty...
He also has commitments some evenings during the week, commitees and kids cricket etc. He conceded that he was probably over commited/doing too much of his own thing and that if he feels he's short of some 'us time' that he's the one going to have to find some time for me!!
The thing is I dont actually mind - yes, its a pain sometimes that he's playing cricket most weekends but Emily is there scoring and I go and take the dogs and watch and I have friends there so its not a chore really. I never wanted to be one of those wives who expect their hubby to ask for permission before he does anything and I dont feel badly done to - he treats me like a queen and I dont have to lift a finger for much of the time!
But the more I thought about it today the more upset I became. I dont know if its hormones - I think thats a big part of it - but I cried all morning. I stayed away from cricket mainly because it was about 10000 degrees in the shade and me and the dogs were both panting and crawling under benches. But I really stayed away to sulk.
So now I'm getting in a tizz because I havent felt Hebe move today - well not properly anyway. I know at this stage I shouldnt worry. This just makes me think I'm havng an all round pregnant/hormonal day.
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I can imagine you suggesting that and it backfiring... he will say "that's a brilliant name, let's go with that!"
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