First of Vickii --

I know i'm not the most perfect person to be talkin to while your havin lad troubles (not exactly tip top with the beings myself haha) but if your thinking to yourself that if you give your relationship one more try it could work even if it is only that little bit inside of you that thinks it, then i say give it that one last try just for the sake of doing it then regrettin it a few months/years down the line when its too late.

I'm stressed out at the minute too, i think its a pregnancy thing this week haha. I've got exams startin next week + my minds been so stressed with home problems that i havent had time to revise up til today an thats only cos i've locked me bedroom door so no one can bug me haha.

Things will get better Vicki, just keep thinkin ahead to when your holdin your baby

Keep ya head up xxx

bloody hell exams Ive got a few lined up at night school next week
I see what your saying about giving things another go but thats all it is all the time... me being a gullable idiot thinking "oh things will work out" they never do. arrrrrghhhhhh just so cheeeesed off with everything.

thanks for the advise though rach

So cute! Shel love it

Cant wait to get my own place so i can even think aboutthe way i'l be doin his own lil room

xx

Vicki, if you dont have a feelin things really will work out then i think you should sit down an talk it over with your OH an see what he thinks. come to agreements over seein the baby an if you still wan im there when shes born etc.

hope everything works out the way you want it to xx

tried to talk things over with him, I'm not the one who hurts him... its him who says and does horrible things that cause the arguements so he's delusioned things will all work out cause he's got no reasons to doubt my feelings if you get what i mean... whereas me on the other hand I'm the complete opposite.
i've tried discussing worst case scenario ie if we split up arrangements that can be made with regards to our daughter but he doesn't listen he's more arsed on how it will look to everyone else and how everyone else will feel everyone meaning his mum and his family!!!! as he doesnt want to let them down... WTF

Lads Pfftt!

weres all these nice lads every girl wishes for ??

haha there stuck in are dreams thats were! xxx

they're all gay !!!!