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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 06:11 AM   #1
Ethereal
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I'm driving myself mad, please help I'm very upset.


OH DEAR GOD I AM DRIVING MYSELF INSANE
after posting that extremely positive thread a few days ago I feel silly getting so worked up, I just can't help it. I'm plagued with negative thoughts and worries, I need to stop it!

1) I have been having pressure pains on my right side near my hip bone, is this normal? I am very worried.

2) If you still have all your symptoms does that mean baby is still happy in there?

3) Why am I showing already? I'm only 6 weeks and I have to wear elasticated trousers because my button wont fit.

4) Is it normal that my urination has stopped becoming as frequent as it was in week 5?

5) I think I'm dehydrated, I'm drinking a lot of water, but my wee is very dark and I'm constantly thirsty, what can I do to help this?

I'm sorry to flood you, but I just feel like I'm alone in this, this is the only place I can come to discuss my fears, I'm just so scared, I'm sitting waiting for something to go wrong because I never ever imagined myself to be having a baby, it was accidental and I just don't feel lucky enough to carry full term. I've had three previous miscarriages and it's gotten to the point where I just expect to lose baby every time I get a +. It's so sad.


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 06:20 AM   #2
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Bump please, I am especially worried about the pain on my right


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 06:32 AM   #3
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hey, i have had pains in left and right sides and right across the front since 4 wks, they sent me for two early scans for it, and i still get them-actually on the sick with them. i was walking round asda yesterday and was in agony, had to keep lifting my left leg to ease the pain, looked like i was marching. i got home and rested and the pain subsided. it really bloody hurts sometimes. ive bn told its totally normal especially in twins. id yr reallly concerned speak to yr midwife or doc and they may refer you for a reassurance scan. keep yr chin up. ive also just replied on yr dog post.


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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 06:34 AM   #4
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hey sweetie x try not to worry x

try having some very cold water it can be good for dehydration x


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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 06:39 AM   #5
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Quote:
Originally Posted by fidgets mammy View Post
it really bloody hurts sometimes. ive bn told its totally normal especially in twins.
TWINS?!
I bloody well hope not!!!!!!!!


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 06:58 AM   #6
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i know what you mean about the wee thing. i drink loads of water and no matter what, it's always really dark like i'm extra dehydrated.


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 07:01 AM   #7
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ha ha ha ha. thats what i thought, now i love it.


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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 07:03 AM   #8
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Can't offer any advice except bring the concerns up to your doctor. That way you can get clear cut answers!


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 07:06 AM   #9
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It feels like something is burrowing inside me right next to my right hip bone, it's fucking agony, I was worried it was ectopic but surely I'd know by now?. I don't want to take painkillers though, I'm wary about taking any kind of medication.


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2012, 07:11 AM   #10
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When I was around six weeks I had pain on my left side. In fact it kept me awake with worry. I was convinced it was an ectopic. As time went on I was then worried I had a giant cyst. Yesterday I went for my 12 week scan and there was no sign of anything wrong. Some people say that you sometimes get a pain from the ovary where the egg came from. I always thought I wasn't lucky enough to have a baby. Took me ages to meet the right person and the old clock was ticking. Finally I can now accept that yes it will happen. The first 12 weeks are hell as you drive yourself mad with worry. Try and stay positive and all will be fine. Unless you experience bleeding, you should have nothing to worry about.


 
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