Was wondering when you girls would tell people? Obviously a few know but now I've had 2 scans a HB on doppler maybe it's starting to sink in & I'm hoping thats me out of the dark?

i wasnt going to tell anyone untill after 12 weeks but when i saw everything was ok on the 8 week scan i told everyone then. family members knew a bit before

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You think now we're pretty much out of teh danger spot Layla? Some don't get scans til 12 weeks do they so we're prety lucky.

Ive told my mum, MIL, an some of the girls! The way i look at it is if i have another m/c then i will need support so no point not tellin them! Wont be tellin anyone else just yet though!
Whenever u feel ready hun u should start to tell people!
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Edit: i have also told the girl i work with cos we have heavy lifting with brochures etc, and ive told my manager for time off! LOL so pretty much everyone!

i usually get over excited and tell every one the night i find out

but i think 12 week scan is the best time to then tell every one.
my mum has always waited untill the 20week scan though

i think we are out of danger now yeah, for me i was praying to get past 9 weeks, i spotted at 9 weeks on Coby, he was fine, spotted at 9 weeks on the last - misscarried. so 9 weeks was teh hurdle for me.

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I told close family after our early scan at the EPU at 8 weeks showed a heartbeat.

Then I told friends and the rest of my family and work after 14 weeks as I had my 12 week scan at 14 weeks...silly hospital

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i think it goes by youe personal cercumstances
like for Layla 9weeks was a hurdle

for you wobs this is a hurdle coming this far

for me the 12 week scan is a hurdle

wenever you feel comfortable 2 hun!!!!

Jesus Dionne ur mum must be lucky to hide a bump til 20 weeks! Is she a slim jim like you?x