Anyone else scared to...

susan_1981 · Oct 26th, 2008, 14:24 PM

have sex now that they are pregnant? I'm really paranoid about it. My husband is fine about it and says if I don't feel comfortable about it at the moment then it's fine. But I'm scared of having bleeding afterwards as I know that they say your cervix is filled with blood (is that true?) when you are pregnant so I'm really worried about it. Anyone else worried about it or am I just being paranoid? Don't get me wrong, I don't plan to go the next 8 months without it but it's just in these really early days.

juliespencer9 · Oct 26th, 2008, 14:28 PM

hi,
yep im the same only had it twice since i found out, very paranoid about it, i think we all are.
not sure about the cervix and blood thing though!
i keep saying after 12 wks il be back to normal....put i know i probley wont...oh well.

MsLynn225 · Oct 26th, 2008, 14:47 PM

Well, when my cousin got pregnant with her first baby boy, she continued to have sex with her Bf, she never mentioned anything about bleeding, she had told me it feels much better then it ever did... haha !

helenas81 · Oct 26th, 2008, 15:00 PM

My other half is freaked out about having sex. Im only about 5 weeks so yeah i feel a bit funny about it but cant not have sex again for 8 months!! im sure after the birth ill be the one to freaked to have sex!! Ha Ha Ha

ribboninthesky · Oct 26th, 2008, 15:28 PM

I'm not scared, infact I've been ever so horny since I found out I was pregnant, so OH is very pleased lol!

Jkelmum · Oct 26th, 2008, 16:26 PM

As this is my 4th baby I am not scared although my hubby wont come near me until 12 wks then he is ok with it all xxx

navarababe · Oct 26th, 2008, 16:32 PM

I was scared as first aswell, but i read in a book the M/W gave me thats it safe. and i couldnt imgine going 8months without it either lol. xx

Suze · Oct 26th, 2008, 16:33 PM

Yep me too. It's also only early days for me and I'm waiting until my first scan in 4 days and then hopefully I'll feel like it again!
Also we have always been totally against having a TV in the bedroom, now I have been talking about getting one and DP said " oh right, it's like that is it now you're knocked up!!!!" He was only joking (I hope!)

xxKelxx · Oct 26th, 2008, 16:59 PM

I am exactly the same! Feeling a bit worried at the moment because it's so early so have told DH that we're not doing it again until after 12 weeks.

If I saw any blood afterwards I would freak out!

amelia222 · Oct 26th, 2008, 17:16 PM

I'm not really worried about it. I have a few times with no bleeding, but I just have no desire to at all. Whenever he tries I just push him away and then I feel bad.

Oct 26th, 2008, 14:24 PM	#1
susan_1981 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Kent Posts: 2,141	Anyone else scared to... have sex now that they are pregnant? I'm really paranoid about it. My husband is fine about it and says if I don't feel comfortable about it at the moment then it's fine. But I'm scared of having bleeding afterwards as I know that they say your cervix is filled with blood (is that true?) when you are pregnant so I'm really worried about it. Anyone else worried about it or am I just being paranoid? Don't get me wrong, I don't plan to go the next 8 months without it but it's just in these really early days.

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Oct 26th, 2008, 14:28 PM	#2
juliespencer9 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: South of England Posts: 1,696	hi, yep im the same only had it twice since i found out, very paranoid about it, i think we all are. not sure about the cervix and blood thing though! i keep saying after 12 wks il be back to normal....put i know i probley wont...oh well.

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Oct 26th, 2008, 14:47 PM	#3
MsLynn225 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Brantford, Ontario Posts: 256	Well, when my cousin got pregnant with her first baby boy, she continued to have sex with her Bf, she never mentioned anything about bleeding, she had told me it feels much better then it ever did... haha !

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Oct 26th, 2008, 15:00 PM	#4
helenas81 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: northants, england Posts: 619	My other half is freaked out about having sex. Im only about 5 weeks so yeah i feel a bit funny about it but cant not have sex again for 8 months!! im sure after the birth ill be the one to freaked to have sex!! Ha Ha Ha

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ribboninthesky Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Wirral/Merseyside Posts: 555	I'm not scared, infact I've been ever so horny since I found out I was pregnant, so OH is very pleased lol!

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Oct 26th, 2008, 16:26 PM	#6
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	As this is my 4th baby I am not scared although my hubby wont come near me until 12 wks then he is ok with it all xxx

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navarababe Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Ayr (Scotland) Posts: 4,212	I was scared as first aswell, but i read in a book the M/W gave me thats it safe. and i couldnt imgine going 8months without it either lol. xx

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Oct 26th, 2008, 16:33 PM	#8
Suze Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Newcastle upon Tyne, UK Posts: 8,969	Yep me too. It's also only early days for me and I'm waiting until my first scan in 4 days and then hopefully I'll feel like it again! Also we have always been totally against having a TV in the bedroom, now I have been talking about getting one and DP said " oh right, it's like that is it now you're knocked up!!!!" He was only joking (I hope!)

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Oct 26th, 2008, 16:59 PM	#9
xxKelxx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 198	I am exactly the same! Feeling a bit worried at the moment because it's so early so have told DH that we're not doing it again until after 12 weeks. If I saw any blood afterwards I would freak out!

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Oct 26th, 2008, 17:16 PM	#10
amelia222 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Mission BC Posts: 710	I'm not really worried about it. I have a few times with no bleeding, but I just have no desire to at all. Whenever he tries I just push him away and then I feel bad.

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