Really Scared Help :-((

Sara-Rose89 · Oct 21st, 2008, 10:43 AM

Hi, I'm around 8 weeks pregnant and yesterday i had a bleed after sex and there were tiny clots?? i have no pain or anything and only had the blood when i wiped after the loo. i went to the doctors and they said everything was ok and would be alot more blood etc if i was losing the baby.

I am at the midwife on friday for booking and first bloodtests and to get my first scan date.

Please help as i am so scared and can't stop crying and could really do with hearing some of your experiences

emzlouize · Oct 21st, 2008, 10:45 AM

i had two bleeds my 2nd one was assisted with really bad cramps and wasnt just there when i wiped, it trickled out of me (TMI) and everythin was fine wit me x

ajarvis · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:02 AM

With my son I bled almost every time we had sex, and then starting in second tri I'd bleed every month. Had a perfectly healthy overdue baby boy

Laura--x · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:18 AM

I bled a bit after me and oh had sex when i was about 9 weeks i think.

Didn't realise it untill i woke up and i was unbelievably scared, we phoned the maternity unit and they said aslong as its brown blood, and not too much and not accompined by pains/cramping then it sounds ok, had my scan last week and everything was fine

moomin_troll · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:22 AM

i had a heavy bleed at 6 weeks and all was fine they couldnt explain why i was bleedin but yeah aslong as ur not in pain then ule be fine. Alot of women bleed after sex i wouldnt worry bout that either just dont do it for a week n see how u r.

pregnany is great and horrible there will be more worried onlong the way but u will get thru it n learn whats normal n what isnt in time

applegirl · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:42 AM

hi Sara-Rose honey - when you are pregnant your cervix is extra full of blood and when you have contact with it - through sex, or pap smear or pelvic exam (for example) you are likely to have a bit of blood. Many many women have this and most of them end up with healthy babies. Try not to worry darlin, and don't cry. This really sounds to me like nothing serious. Be sure to talk about it with your midwife - maybe ask for an early scan?

LongRoadAhead · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:48 AM

I say get to a&e or early pregnancy unit so they can do a scan to see if baby is ok. Some people do bleed during pregnancy but best to be on the safe side
Xx

moomin_troll · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by LongRoadAhead

I say get to a&e or early pregnancy unit so they can do a scan to see if baby is ok. Some people do bleed during pregnancy but best to be on the safe side
Xx

yeah i did go a&e when i had my bleed n got a scan was glad i did

Cariad_bach · Oct 21st, 2008, 11:54 AM

Aww hun im sure everythings ok...maybe like the others have said you should go to A&E to put your mind at rest xxxx

Sara-Rose89 · Oct 21st, 2008, 13:24 PM

Thanks for all your replies, they've really helped i guess every little thing gets you thinking the worst especially when its your first.

Well midwife on friday so will let her know and hopefully no more bleeding now and my little grape is ok

Oct 21st, 2008, 10:43 AM	#1
Sara-Rose89 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 511	Really Scared Help :-(( Hi, I'm around 8 weeks pregnant and yesterday i had a bleed after sex and there were tiny clots?? i have no pain or anything and only had the blood when i wiped after the loo. i went to the doctors and they said everything was ok and would be alot more blood etc if i was losing the baby. I am at the midwife on friday for booking and first bloodtests and to get my first scan date. Please help as i am so scared and can't stop crying and could really do with hearing some of your experiences

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Oct 21st, 2008, 10:45 AM	#2
emzlouize Press/Research Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Merseyside Posts: 2,381	i had two bleeds my 2nd one was assisted with really bad cramps and wasnt just there when i wiped, it trickled out of me (TMI) and everythin was fine wit me x

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Oct 21st, 2008, 11:02 AM	#3
ajarvis Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Calgary Posts: 2,301	With my son I bled almost every time we had sex, and then starting in second tri I'd bleed every month. Had a perfectly healthy overdue baby boy

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Oct 21st, 2008, 11:18 AM	#4
Laura--x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: England Posts: 8,799	I bled a bit after me and oh had sex when i was about 9 weeks i think. Didn't realise it untill i woke up and i was unbelievably scared, we phoned the maternity unit and they said aslong as its brown blood, and not too much and not accompined by pains/cramping then it sounds ok, had my scan last week and everything was fine

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Oct 21st, 2008, 11:22 AM	#5
moomin_troll Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: staffordshire Posts: 14,583	i had a heavy bleed at 6 weeks and all was fine they couldnt explain why i was bleedin but yeah aslong as ur not in pain then ule be fine. Alot of women bleed after sex i wouldnt worry bout that either just dont do it for a week n see how u r. pregnany is great and horrible there will be more worried onlong the way but u will get thru it n learn whats normal n what isnt in time

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Oct 21st, 2008, 11:42 AM	#6
applegirl Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Toronto Posts: 12,806	hi Sara-Rose honey - when you are pregnant your cervix is extra full of blood and when you have contact with it - through sex, or pap smear or pelvic exam (for example) you are likely to have a bit of blood. Many many women have this and most of them end up with healthy babies. Try not to worry darlin, and don't cry. This really sounds to me like nothing serious. Be sure to talk about it with your midwife - maybe ask for an early scan?

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Oct 21st, 2008, 11:48 AM	#7
LongRoadAhead Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Devon,England Posts: 974	I say get to a&e or early pregnancy unit so they can do a scan to see if baby is ok. Some people do bleed during pregnancy but best to be on the safe side Xx

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Oct 21st, 2008, 11:54 AM	#9
Cariad_bach Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 5,652	Aww hun im sure everythings ok...maybe like the others have said you should go to A&E to put your mind at rest xxxx

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Oct 21st, 2008, 13:24 PM	#10
Sara-Rose89 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 511	Thanks for all your replies, they've really helped i guess every little thing gets you thinking the worst especially when its your first. Well midwife on friday so will let her know and hopefully no more bleeding now and my little grape is ok

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