please give me some advice :(

xxemmiexx · Oct 7th, 2008, 05:21 AM

Hiya everyone
the first time i spotted was 2 weeks before i had my first scan, i was sooo scared to think something was wrong, but everything was fine

I now have spotted again 2 weeks after my scan (13 weeks) its only a little bit and havent had anything since, but im getting some cramps on my right side today, kind a mixture of period pains, also some back pain.
I hope everything is still ok even though i am over the 12 week mark

As anyone else experience some thing like this?
Please help.
Thanks soooo much x x x

MarshMellow · Oct 7th, 2008, 05:38 AM

Honey the pain is probably your uterus getting ready to "pop" up from your pelvis ready to start growing your "showable bump" As long as you have had a scan and everything is where it should be I would just relax I know its easier said than done and if you are really worried call your midwife.

Sorry just realised that sounds like a load of patronising gabble. Thats not how it mean to come out!! Having one of those days today!!

Either way. Im sure its nothing but bubs growing if your mega worried call your midwife xxx

danni2609 · Oct 7th, 2008, 05:48 AM

Id call ur midwife they will send an oncall one round to see u i had this the other week and it was down to stretching!

everhopeful · Oct 7th, 2008, 08:14 AM

Hi - Its natural to worry but I am sure there is nothing to worry about!
Still if you are worried - call your doctor!!

Hope it all goes well!

EmmaRB · Oct 7th, 2008, 10:57 AM

Hi Emmie,

I had my 12 week scan yesterday and everything looked exactly as it should. I haven't had any spotting at all but last night I wiped and there it was. It wasn't bright red and it was gone in three tentative wipes. I waited until this morning to see if there was any more which there wasn't. I think I'm a bit more crampy than normal but definitely not in pain. I called the midwife this morning who was lovely and said this happens to a lot of women, they can't be totally sure of the cause but if I'm really worried go in and they'll have a listen for the heartbeat. Maybe you could ask to do that? If I get any more or the cramps increase, I definitely will be.

Fingers crossed everything's fine for both of us.

Em x

cleckner04 · Oct 7th, 2008, 12:31 PM

Snuck over to WTT and read this. Sorry you are having troubles. All I can say is take it easy.

Good luck!

LongRoadAhead · Oct 7th, 2008, 13:22 PM

Heya Hun!
I havent experienced this but can totally understand why your worrying.
Your past the 12 week stage, So risk of miscarrige drops dramaticly, So try not to worry (easier said than I done, I know)
But honestly like the other ladies have said, Its probably just your uterus getting ready to move up and baby moving up from behind your pelvis.
Relax and enjoy your pregnancy
Take care
X

Oct 7th, 2008, 05:21 AM	#1
xxemmiexx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Essex Posts: 34	please give me some advice :( Hiya everyone the first time i spotted was 2 weeks before i had my first scan, i was sooo scared to think something was wrong, but everything was fine I now have spotted again 2 weeks after my scan (13 weeks) its only a little bit and havent had anything since, but im getting some cramps on my right side today, kind a mixture of period pains, also some back pain. I hope everything is still ok even though i am over the 12 week mark As anyone else experience some thing like this? Please help. Thanks soooo much x x x

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Oct 7th, 2008, 05:38 AM	#2
MarshMellow Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: UK Sandhurst Posts: 555	Honey the pain is probably your uterus getting ready to "pop" up from your pelvis ready to start growing your "showable bump" As long as you have had a scan and everything is where it should be I would just relax I know its easier said than done and if you are really worried call your midwife. Sorry just realised that sounds like a load of patronising gabble. Thats not how it mean to come out!! Having one of those days today!! Either way. Im sure its nothing but bubs growing if your mega worried call your midwife xxx

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Oct 7th, 2008, 05:48 AM	#3
danni2609 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: cornwall Posts: 6,138	Id call ur midwife they will send an oncall one round to see u i had this the other week and it was down to stretching!

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Oct 7th, 2008, 08:14 AM	#4
everhopeful Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 342	Hi - Its natural to worry but I am sure there is nothing to worry about! Still if you are worried - call your doctor!! Hope it all goes well!

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Oct 7th, 2008, 10:57 AM	#5
EmmaRB Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Kent Posts: 177	Hi Emmie, I had my 12 week scan yesterday and everything looked exactly as it should. I haven't had any spotting at all but last night I wiped and there it was. It wasn't bright red and it was gone in three tentative wipes. I waited until this morning to see if there was any more which there wasn't. I think I'm a bit more crampy than normal but definitely not in pain. I called the midwife this morning who was lovely and said this happens to a lot of women, they can't be totally sure of the cause but if I'm really worried go in and they'll have a listen for the heartbeat. Maybe you could ask to do that? If I get any more or the cramps increase, I definitely will be. Fingers crossed everything's fine for both of us. Em x

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Oct 7th, 2008, 12:31 PM	#6
cleckner04 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 21,311	Snuck over to WTT and read this. Sorry you are having troubles. All I can say is take it easy. Good luck!

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Oct 7th, 2008, 13:22 PM	#7
LongRoadAhead Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Devon,England Posts: 974	Heya Hun! I havent experienced this but can totally understand why your worrying. Your past the 12 week stage, So risk of miscarrige drops dramaticly, So try not to worry (easier said than I done, I know) But honestly like the other ladies have said, Its probably just your uterus getting ready to move up and baby moving up from behind your pelvis. Relax and enjoy your pregnancy Take care X

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