DH is being a tw@t!!!
Yesterday after midwife I slept all day till 6pm when he woke me up and all I did all day was put the dish washer on. (I have a cold too and it has nocked me for 6).
He was fine when he woke me up I went to the shop got a bout of MS and came home.
Then went to bed at 10:30pm he cae up at 12:30 and started nagging me so I shouted at him for waking me up. He selpt in the spare room last night.
Then winged and winged about what hadn't been done!

Not only have I go this cold and week 6 fatigue but Im signed off sick and told to rest!!!

So just for the wan**r this was my "resting" for today.

He woke me up at 7.15 when he went to work to nag about something
I came down at 7:30 Had breakfast.
then loaded and put on dishwasher
took the washing out the dryer
Took the washing from the basket up stairs carried it down stairs put it in washing machine.
Now on load 2! (1 more to go)
Duted living room
Icarried my hospital bag up empteid it ready to be re-pcked.
Hovered all up stairs and ON stairs.
Mopped my hall (lamenate floor) and my kitchen.
Cleaned all my sides in my kichen. and cooker
Its now 9:30!

See how he likes that!!!! Im damn sure he will find something to winge about!


GGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

I still have things to do I really could smack him some times.

Aw hun GO BACK TO BED!!

Definitely go back to bed hun. The house can wait.

What an absolute wanker. Go back to bed and rest hun. The first tri is hard enough without having a cold and everything else

Thanks girls I THINK I might have finished now. About 90 mins and he will be home for lunch. I wonder what I've forgotten!

I think a large part of it is He been told No sex. I dont know when we will be able to do it again wether its after the 12 weeks or once bean is born.

Sorry but thats no excuse hun! Me and my OH haven't had sex for ages and he's not at me for not doing enough around the house! Tell him to go have a wank and get his finger out!

As I tell my partner, a little sexual frustration is NOTHING compared to pregnancy... and I also tell him that if he wants something done, he can flippin' well do it himself, because I'm not the maid, and I've been feeling like rubbish. Luckily he is the understanding sort, and has been doing the dishes and cooking dinner, and after I went nuclear the first time, he now just says, 'oh well, it can wait' if I haven't done everything I 'should' have in a day. He knows better than to argue with me, I think!

If it were me, I'd have been back in bed already. If you're on doctor's orders to get some rest, go get some!

Am on sofa with laptop. Usually he is really understanding, and will just do it if its not been done. I dont understand it. I know he has a l going on at the moment with work ect. But he just dosent seem to care, we've had 2 scares with this bean cant emotionaly afford another and maybe a last!
MEN!!!

Gawd we haven't had since May My OH daredn't moan at me, I do jack shit atm he does it all. I remember first tri all you wanna do is sleep. DH would tuck me up in bed, close the curtains and leave me to it. It is what I needed so it was what I got. You need to tell him to be a tad more supportive. get him online to see how awful the first tri is, may help him to understand.