scared i will lose this baby too please help

jade02 · Sep 3rd, 2008, 06:53 AM

i had a miscarriage in april this year i am now 9 weeks pregnant again am sooooo scared i will lose this baby too my pregnancy symptoms seem to have stopped i dont no if this is normal i still feel nauseous and tired but no way near as bad as i was a couple of weeks ago i am constantly going to the toilet to check for bleeding and touching my breasts to see if they are still sore i have asked for an early scan but they won't do one i also had green discharge yesterday sorry for tmi i am sooooo scared is it normal for pregnancy symptoms to come and go thank you

wishing4ababy · Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:00 AM

First of all try and relax and calm down. I'm sorry to hear about your loss hun - but it sounds like all the pregnancy symptoms are still there. Can you not speak to your midwife and explain to her how and why you are feeling like this. Surely they will try and get you in for an early scan when you are feeling so apprehensive. good luck hun. I am sure everything will be fine. xxx

owo · Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:05 AM

Hi,

I am in the exact same situation as yours. I MC in May and am just 9 weeks now. My symptoms aren't half as bad as they were last week. I couldn't get an early scan on the NHS so I paid for a private one on Sunday and all is well with me this time. I'm sure the same is true with you. Also i have the slight yellow/green CM. The midwife said this is quite normal and as long as it doesn't itch then it is fine. I know it is only a few weeks until your 12 week scan, but knowing what i have been like maybe you could pay for a private scan to reasure you.

MrsP · Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:08 AM

I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

You are going to have to trust your body hon and go with the flow. Try to keep calm and enjoy the pregnancy. Some people go through pregnancy with no real problems o having suffered sickness, so you may just be lucky that your body is adjusting to the increase of hormones quickly.

I have experienced a lot of discharge throughout my pregnancy and my midwife advised as long and it doesn't smell or itch, then not too much to worry about.

You can always go to your local day assesment unit and speak to the midwives there and see if they can give you any further information to ease your mind.

Can't be long now till your first scan? x x x

aurora32 · Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:11 AM

Hi hunn,

try to calm down and relax a little, being all tense isnt goin to help u hunn, i understand your anxious but sounds like your symptoms are still there just not as bad at the moment, this could change back in the next few days i have good days then head down the toilet and unable to do anything the next, talk to your midwife and explain how you feel and ask if you cant get an early scan to put your mind at rest.

hope all goes well

momandpeanut · Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:13 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss,

I lost a baby in jan then discovered i was expecting in march ! I was petrified, every slight change i thought here we go again !!

Try to relax (i know easier said than done !) and take it easy !

If you are really worried contact your mw im sure she will do her best to reasure you !

jade02 · Sep 3rd, 2008, 08:34 AM

thank you it helps hearing similar experiences just soo scared no bleeding though which i suppose is a good sign

wishes · Sep 3rd, 2008, 08:40 AM

another one that knows how youre feeling here hun!

I had mc in april and am pregnant again now. Im absolutely pooping my pants but worrying doesnt help. I have got an early scan next week but because ive had some bleeding. Id rather i hadnt.

Paying for a private scan sounds like a fab idea, its not that much and would make a big difference to how you feel.

Janisdkh · Sep 3rd, 2008, 09:33 AM

Aww I am so sorry about your loss. Congrats on your new pregnancy. I hope you get an early scan. usually when doctors see you are worried they will ease your mind. Maybe if you go to the ER and complain of sharp pains on one side or spotting? You might get one... Big hugs and good luck!

Logiebear · Sep 3rd, 2008, 09:43 AM

So sorry for your loss hun. I have had 2 m/c this year and got prenant again in June so I know how oyu are feeling. It is worrying and there are so many of us on permanent knicker watch etc. It feels so tense all the time but once you've had your first scan it should help to ease your anxieties

Sep 3rd, 2008, 06:53 AM	#1
jade02 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 86	scared i will lose this baby too please help i had a miscarriage in april this year i am now 9 weeks pregnant again am sooooo scared i will lose this baby too my pregnancy symptoms seem to have stopped i dont no if this is normal i still feel nauseous and tired but no way near as bad as i was a couple of weeks ago i am constantly going to the toilet to check for bleeding and touching my breasts to see if they are still sore i have asked for an early scan but they won't do one i also had green discharge yesterday sorry for tmi i am sooooo scared is it normal for pregnancy symptoms to come and go thank you

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:00 AM	#2
wishing4ababy Other BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Manchester Posts: 5,869	First of all try and relax and calm down. I'm sorry to hear about your loss hun - but it sounds like all the pregnancy symptoms are still there. Can you not speak to your midwife and explain to her how and why you are feeling like this. Surely they will try and get you in for an early scan when you are feeling so apprehensive. good luck hun. I am sure everything will be fine. xxx

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:05 AM	#3
owo Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Chelmsford, UK Posts: 1,208	Hi, I am in the exact same situation as yours. I MC in May and am just 9 weeks now. My symptoms aren't half as bad as they were last week. I couldn't get an early scan on the NHS so I paid for a private one on Sunday and all is well with me this time. I'm sure the same is true with you. Also i have the slight yellow/green CM. The midwife said this is quite normal and as long as it doesn't itch then it is fine. I know it is only a few weeks until your 12 week scan, but knowing what i have been like maybe you could pay for a private scan to reasure you.

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:08 AM	#4
MrsP Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Hornchurch, Essex Posts: 4,205	I'm sorry to hear of your loss. You are going to have to trust your body hon and go with the flow. Try to keep calm and enjoy the pregnancy. Some people go through pregnancy with no real problems o having suffered sickness, so you may just be lucky that your body is adjusting to the increase of hormones quickly. I have experienced a lot of discharge throughout my pregnancy and my midwife advised as long and it doesn't smell or itch, then not too much to worry about. You can always go to your local day assesment unit and speak to the midwives there and see if they can give you any further information to ease your mind. Can't be long now till your first scan? x x x

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:11 AM	#5
aurora32 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mey, Caithness Posts: 2,610	Hi hunn, try to calm down and relax a little, being all tense isnt goin to help u hunn, i understand your anxious but sounds like your symptoms are still there just not as bad at the moment, this could change back in the next few days i have good days then head down the toilet and unable to do anything the next, talk to your midwife and explain how you feel and ask if you cant get an early scan to put your mind at rest. hope all goes well

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 07:13 AM	#6
momandpeanut Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: coventry Posts: 3,472	Sorry to hear about your loss, I lost a baby in jan then discovered i was expecting in march ! I was petrified, every slight change i thought here we go again !! Try to relax (i know easier said than done !) and take it easy ! If you are really worried contact your mw im sure she will do her best to reasure you !

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 08:34 AM	#7
jade02 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 86	thank you it helps hearing similar experiences just soo scared no bleeding though which i suppose is a good sign

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 08:40 AM	#8
wishes Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 1,552	another one that knows how youre feeling here hun! I had mc in april and am pregnant again now. Im absolutely pooping my pants but worrying doesnt help. I have got an early scan next week but because ive had some bleeding. Id rather i hadnt. Paying for a private scan sounds like a fab idea, its not that much and would make a big difference to how you feel.

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 09:33 AM	#9
Janisdkh Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 2,938	Aww I am so sorry about your loss. Congrats on your new pregnancy. I hope you get an early scan. usually when doctors see you are worried they will ease your mind. Maybe if you go to the ER and complain of sharp pains on one side or spotting? You might get one... Big hugs and good luck!

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Sep 3rd, 2008, 09:43 AM	#10
Logiebear Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Manchester, England Posts: 3,516	So sorry for your loss hun. I have had 2 m/c this year and got prenant again in June so I know how oyu are feeling. It is worrying and there are so many of us on permanent knicker watch etc. It feels so tense all the time but once you've had your first scan it should help to ease your anxieties

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