Trinity

Good luck Vic, have everything crossed for you

KX

Good luck hun, if I were you I'd be at the hospital demanding an answer. It isn't fair leaving you like this.

I was scanned at 6 weeks and they found a heartbeat, no outline of a baby just this flashing on the screen, but it was reassurance. Even if they could scan to see something like this, something is better than nothing.

Thinking of u xx

KX

How r u Vic?

Wobbles

Here Kx

I'm not pregnant anymore

x

Vic

thanks wobbles. Thinks K saw my post after posting in here.

I'm kind of up and down at the minute. I was really really happy when I was pregnant so now I'm feeling disappointed. I just wish I was still pregnant. I keep imagining that I still am and that it's a mistake or something but I think all the pregnancy symptoms are pretty much gone now. I'm just very tired, but I think thats just my body sorting itself out.

how do I know when my cycle is back to normal? do i just wait for my next af and go from there? when should I expect it - is there any way of knowing?? x

Wobbles

Can vary ~ I would wait for your next AF an go from there rather than sending yoruself mad hun or if your going to TTC again & you feel your ready to go that direction straight away then go for it.

x

Vic

I would but DH doesn't seem to want to go for it straight away he doesn't want it to be a big huge stressful think and just wants to be relaxed about it I think.

I feel paranoid though because I keep worrying that he might be secretly relieved that I'm not pregnant anymore and that he might not want to try again and put off or something. He was happy when I got my BFP but not as happy as when I was pg with Eva and he seemed stressed about money. That all sounds pretty harsh when I read it back and it's probably unfounded but it's just one of my worries xx

Wobbles

Who can afford a baby & all the accessories that come with a baby in the first place? Some how you need 100's to start off an x many pounds a week after but like everything it all comes together when it has to Hope you know what I mean

Maybe rather than talking about TTC just go with the flow thats the relaxed way but if you want to talk about your loss with your OH you shouldn't not type thing ... Men are different species my OH was a bit crap at talking about 'trying again' probably justa blow & men are not like us thats for sure lol

KX

Vic I agree with Wobbles, just take each day as it comes, and go with the flow. Your OH will be hurting as much as you are, as he may of been worried about money (I was with Becca too)but he will of got used to the idea of u being pg, so is probably hiding his feelings and keeping a brave face on for you.

My thoughts are with you Vic, keep your chin up xxx

Vic

I'm gutted that we couldn't be pg together after all but it was obviously not the best time for me. I can't wait to watch your pregnancy though it's exciting.