KatienSam

thinking of you hun xxx

babe2ooo

aww i'm so sorry

porkpie1981

in soooo sorry

Frankie

sorry x

biteable

Thinking of you hunni xx

SJK

sorry chick, I have just been through the same, we had no heartbeat at 8 +2, its not fair that 1 in 4 pregnancies ends for nothing and you think that it wont happen to you. Pm me if you need to talk xx

chrissie33

My 1st pg was the same - actually got to my 12 week scan before I found out - it really is unfair and I am so sorry to hear this - my thoughts are with you both

ktbean

Thanks everyone, had a couple of days to get to grips with it. My HCg was 60,000 at the 8w 3d scan and last wed at the 9w 3d it was revealed that they had dropped to 23,000. Sigh.
Of course, been waiting all weekend for miscarriage to start and nothing, not a dickey bird! Can't believe my body is still going along thinking it's pregnant!
I'm going back next wednesday for one last look before I schedule the D&C just to be certain there isn't a miracle going on in there.

SJK

thinking about you , my friend went on for 5 weeks with nothing happening, let me no how you get on xx

ktbean

LATEST UPDATE:
The strangest thing, went in today to talk about natural miscarriage vs D&C, spent the last few days getting to grips with it all and felt ready. No sign of miscarriage. I'm now 10wks and 5 days according to lmp.
Remember the first scan at eight weeks showed sac and maybe yolk sac, the second scan at 9wks and 5 days showed empty sac only and hcg went from 60,000 to 23,000 but progesterone holding steady at good levels. At the second scan I was told to schedule D & C and/or to go home and wait to miscarry. He seemed to think yolk sac had been re-absorbed. Anyway, he said 95% blighted ovum. So of course, had to deal with it.

Well today, there was a fetus!!!! Blew my mind. He did another ultrasound to see how the cyst was doing as it was huge last week. While there he saw the 'empty' sac but this time it wasn't empty! Couldn't find heartbeat though but he said there was no explanation for what he was seeing, he was baffled and said that this is a big puzzle to him. Fetus measuring at just 7 weeks.
For that reason, we're waiting yet one more week to see if by some sheer miracle we detect a heartbeat next week. Oh the emotional rollercoaster ride of it all!
Of course cancelled the D & C I had for planned for monday.
Isn't this the weirdest thing!!! I know Porkpie had a similiar experience!
One thing the doctor did say was sometimes there are no explanations for how things turn out and though he can't explain to me why a fetus is in there now, he does know I no longer have a blighted ovum!