leeanne

You've obviously been through a lot TTC with Caitlin and then with her pregnancy of her.

Seems like you may have thought that TTC with a second might take longer than expected, but it happened quickly and things are going well so far that you may be in shock.



I will say that in my case, this baby was a complete surprise and I am still blank to the fact that we will have a baby soon. I never expected to have another. LOL

SJK

Im worrying alot more this time than I did the 1st and I still dont really believe it until I see bubs again in 3 weeks xxx

Wobbles

Thanks for the answers girls x

Goodness knows why I feel as I do hopefully Monday will give me a shake think deep down I am worried and hiding it. Ive had a dull ache at the front of my shoulder for over a week (before the scan) but never wanted to 'over react' so after the scan and probably 3mm sac I defo didn't want to and ontop I keep having dizzy spells (not sickness) this morning I went from livingroom to highchair which is next to my desk (big open living & dining area) and had to stop, hold on to dining chairs and get on the floor as I had Caitlin in my arms and felt I was going to pass out < could be lack of no appetite though HUMPH!

Im rambling!

Ema

Aw hun you've been through alot.

To be honest my pregnancy hasnt sunk in. I feel him move all the time, bought everything and have his name etc, But he is still not real if you get me. I always know im pregnant, but forget that pregnancy means there a living being inside you even tho he moves if that makes sense? but im so much in love with him non the less but its like i cant believe it until he is born....might sound weird.

Hope you enjoy scan on monday XxxX

bex

I feel alot calmer and relaxed in this pregnancy.

I've had a rocky start with heavy bleeding for the first 13 weeks but felt quite calm and a bit like everything happens for a reason.

Don't get me wrong i would have been really upset if the worst had happened but i just felt weirdly calm about it.

I still forget now that i'm pregnant, but i think part of that is having my son to keep me busy rather than counting down the days.

Amanda

I think I'm a bit opposite to you Wobbles. I sailed through the first pregnancy, was calm and laid back with the 2nd, not worried about him, just me!, but I'm scared stiff about this one. I think as it's the third, the statistics are against me. I'll be a lot happier next week after the scan.

Ann-Marie

It does take longer to sink in after your first. But don't forget, you have Caitlin now, so you don't have as much time to worry

Mamafy

Its totally natural hun, its natures way of protecting you and bubs. I definite;y found Joes pg the worst as we had tried to conceive him for 6 years. We conceived Katie 3 weeks after I had a m/c and was so convinced all was wrong again that my pg never sank in till I could feel her move

Tezzy

i was definetly calmer until my 20 week scan

trishk

well for me when i was pregnant with my second it was different like you because:

1. It was so fast - ryan was 3 months.
2. Ryan was my first and i tried 4 so long that i was so nervous something was wrong but because that went ok i wasn't nervous on evan.
3. this might sound terrible but i wasnt as excited and wishing to be 40wks because i knew what i was in for - sleepless nights etc. with Ryan being so young.


This time is different because we tried for ages as well and the boys are older and can amuse themselves for an hour here and there when i will be busy with the baby. When evan was born i was still spoon feeding ryan so i was so so busy i couldn't really enjoy evan properly. If that makes any sense - if not blame it on the hormones!