lolly101

I agree with everyone else too. I would be spiteful too and leave them out of the rest of the pregnancy(scans and things) but thats me too!!! I hope your house is finished soon and you and OH can get settled.
It's YOUR baby and it wa no way right for her to decide to tell anyone(Maybe she's jealous its not her becoming a grandparent!!!)

porkpie1981

krissie1234uk

Thank you guys so much. I was so angry and upset but I have most definately calmed down now. Reading all your comments has made me feel better.
I only really got to know my dad over the last 2 years and so I guess I'm not losing much. I think I was more hurt that he let her speak to me like that and still made it into something I did wrong. But it's his loss at the end of the day. My dad doesn't know his other son and grandkids and it looks as though he won't know this one either.
I'm staying with my partner, its not ideal as he lives with a friend, but its fine for now. I'm being spoilt rotten at the minute too cos my boyfriend doesn't want me to get worked up bless him.

melbo

i was in the same situation a few weeks ago... my best mate had told someone, and this stupid fat cow that he had told... told EVERYONE.
I was extremely annoyed.. i got texts off randoms saying 'i hear a congrats are in order''- i was like... well no not really, why would they, til they explained that fat cow had told them... she was not even supposed to know! I was so angry with my mate... bloody fools!