absolutley terrified

passengerrach · Jul 26th, 2008, 11:43 AM

im soo worried about goin 4 my first scan (im having an early one so should be within nxt 2 weeks waiting for letter) so many people on here are suffering misscarriages and losing their babys im soo scared of going for this scan and being told there is no heartbeat or no baby how can i stop feeling like this and also i have not been sick once i see this as a bad sign why cant i just be sick everyday then i would feel like everything was ok my only symptom is my boobs very sore and i get quite tired not overly tired though i thought i would be dead on my feet every day but im not do u all think my baby is going to be ok or do u think il be added to these poor women on here suffering misscarriages?

im sorry this is mainly just letting my feelings out but i am so worried

mummymadness · Jul 26th, 2008, 11:54 AM

Iam exactly the same 100% , Scan next week and iam petrefied...
Since so many lovely women on here are miscarrying , I feel like iam doomed .
I dont know why , I have had 2 healthy pregnancies .. But this time i have less symptoms and just feel less pregnant .
Your not alone sweety iam hoping scan next week will give me some hope , Iam allso scared as its an early scan .. If they cannot see anything i know i will just panick to death .
Good luck hun . xxxxxxxx

passengerrach · Jul 26th, 2008, 11:57 AM

thanks im glad im not alone i feel doomed too good luck hun let me no how it goes

mummymadness · Jul 26th, 2008, 12:09 PM

I will post pic as soon as i go next Friday ...
Real good luck to you hun too , Im not sure why we have this feeling but at least were not alone .
I have never joined a forum before so i guess its seeing soo many women go through such a dreadfull time you feel for them , And then convince yourself something bad will happen , Iam so worried of dates as well not sure how far am exactly so hoping to see something

. . .
Do you know i never met one person who had a MC before i joined this site .. I just wanted to post in this post today as quiet a few women are suffering , I never know what is right to say , But GENUINLY iam real sorry for your losses .. I wish i could make it better for you all . xxxxxxxxxx

p.s keep me updated passenger hun as it seems we may be due around the same time

. xxx

enigma · Jul 26th, 2008, 14:14 PM

Its totally normal to feel like this, ive had 3 healthy pregnancies and 3 healthy kids, but i still worry.
Its hard, but its best to try and not think about it, worrying isent good for you.
Take care and best of luck.

claire1978 · Jul 26th, 2008, 14:21 PM

Im feeling exactly the same, I think it makes it worse coz i cant find the heartbeat on the doppler but it could still be too early or I might not be doing it right, I didnt have one with my first two children

I have my scan on Wednesday and I dont want to look at the screen, I am seriously so scared and I dont know why, i wasnt like it with my other two

If anyone has read my other post, then you will see that Im even more worried now after what has happened this evening, a little accident involving my computer chair

Im just hoping I will see my LO with a massive heartbeat, it will make me so so happy and good luck to you aswell

Hope22 · Jul 26th, 2008, 14:55 PM

Nausea isn't a sign of things going well or badly - some of us get a bit sick, some are violently ill, and some hardly feel anything at all; don't worry if you're not being sick, just enjoy it

I can completely understand the anxiety, and I think it's pretty normal. We all worry. For me, having a scan was a relief - I got to actually see the baby and have someone tell me s/he was healthy and developing normally. You're past the six-week mark, so your chances of miscarriage have already been drastically reduced. At about 12 weeks it goes down again, but (according to one of my pregnancy books) six weeks is the big milestone.

Try to think relaxing thoughts, and look forward to meeting your LO - you're lucky you get a scan so early; I had to wait to until I was over 15 weeks.

SJK · Jul 27th, 2008, 01:33 AM

Awk chick, we all fell the same, its only normal to worry, my next scan is the 21st august and I dont know how I am going to last that long

xx

porkpie1981 · Jul 27th, 2008, 02:01 AM

Its awful i know. I have my 3rd scan tomorrow and im really worried that there will be no baby like last time. All we can do is wait

**polo_princess** · Jul 27th, 2008, 02:09 AM

hun dont worry, i worried with all my scans and im worried for the next, its just natural, youve just got to relax and have fauth everything will be ok!!

Jul 26th, 2008, 11:43 AM	#1
passengerrach Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: stevenage Posts: 2,939	absolutley terrified im soo worried about goin 4 my first scan (im having an early one so should be within nxt 2 weeks waiting for letter) so many people on here are suffering misscarriages and losing their babys im soo scared of going for this scan and being told there is no heartbeat or no baby how can i stop feeling like this and also i have not been sick once i see this as a bad sign why cant i just be sick everyday then i would feel like everything was ok my only symptom is my boobs very sore and i get quite tired not overly tired though i thought i would be dead on my feet every day but im not do u all think my baby is going to be ok or do u think il be added to these poor women on here suffering misscarriages? im sorry this is mainly just letting my feelings out but i am so worried

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Jul 26th, 2008, 11:54 AM	#2
mummymadness Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 7,558	Iam exactly the same 100% , Scan next week and iam petrefied... Since so many lovely women on here are miscarrying , I feel like iam doomed . I dont know why , I have had 2 healthy pregnancies .. But this time i have less symptoms and just feel less pregnant . Your not alone sweety iam hoping scan next week will give me some hope , Iam allso scared as its an early scan .. If they cannot see anything i know i will just panick to death . Good luck hun . xxxxxxxx

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Jul 26th, 2008, 11:57 AM	#3
passengerrach Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: stevenage Posts: 2,939	thanks im glad im not alone i feel doomed too good luck hun let me no how it goes

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Jul 26th, 2008, 12:09 PM	#4
mummymadness Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 7,558	I will post pic as soon as i go next Friday ... Real good luck to you hun too , Im not sure why we have this feeling but at least were not alone . I have never joined a forum before so i guess its seeing soo many women go through such a dreadfull time you feel for them , And then convince yourself something bad will happen , Iam so worried of dates as well not sure how far am exactly so hoping to see something . . . Do you know i never met one person who had a MC before i joined this site .. I just wanted to post in this post today as quiet a few women are suffering , I never know what is right to say , But GENUINLY iam real sorry for your losses .. I wish i could make it better for you all . xxxxxxxxxx p.s keep me updated passenger hun as it seems we may be due around the same time . xxx

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Jul 26th, 2008, 14:14 PM	#5
enigma Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: northwest Posts: 1,768	Its totally normal to feel like this, ive had 3 healthy pregnancies and 3 healthy kids, but i still worry. Its hard, but its best to try and not think about it, worrying isent good for you. Take care and best of luck.

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Jul 26th, 2008, 14:21 PM	#6
claire1978 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Berkshire Posts: 1,377	Im feeling exactly the same, I think it makes it worse coz i cant find the heartbeat on the doppler but it could still be too early or I might not be doing it right, I didnt have one with my first two children I have my scan on Wednesday and I dont want to look at the screen, I am seriously so scared and I dont know why, i wasnt like it with my other two If anyone has read my other post, then you will see that Im even more worried now after what has happened this evening, a little accident involving my computer chair Im just hoping I will see my LO with a massive heartbeat, it will make me so so happy and good luck to you aswell

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Jul 26th, 2008, 14:55 PM	#7
Hope22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Peterborough, Canada Posts: 1,037	Nausea isn't a sign of things going well or badly - some of us get a bit sick, some are violently ill, and some hardly feel anything at all; don't worry if you're not being sick, just enjoy it I can completely understand the anxiety, and I think it's pretty normal. We all worry. For me, having a scan was a relief - I got to actually see the baby and have someone tell me s/he was healthy and developing normally. You're past the six-week mark, so your chances of miscarriage have already been drastically reduced. At about 12 weeks it goes down again, but (according to one of my pregnancy books) six weeks is the big milestone. Try to think relaxing thoughts, and look forward to meeting your LO - you're lucky you get a scan so early; I had to wait to until I was over 15 weeks.

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Jul 27th, 2008, 01:33 AM	#8
SJK Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: U.K Posts: 4,039	Awk chick, we all fell the same, its only normal to worry, my next scan is the 21st august and I dont know how I am going to last that long xx

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Jul 27th, 2008, 02:01 AM	#9
porkpie1981 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Belfast Posts: 9,107	Its awful i know. I have my 3rd scan tomorrow and im really worried that there will be no baby like last time. All we can do is wait

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Jul 27th, 2008, 02:09 AM	#10
polo_princess Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hertfordshire Posts: 45,510	hun dont worry, i worried with all my scans and im worried for the next, its just natural, youve just got to relax and have fauth everything will be ok!!

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