spenner25

the baby is mine when i know its not
i know the last time we had sex was march 10th reason why i know is beacuse it was my birthday and the day i found out she had cheated on me, i was so in love with her but she cheated so i got out. first she was asking to get back with me and bring the baby up as my own n now im syaing no shes saying its mine
she is still saying its my baby when i know it cant be!
we have had 3 scans 2 of which i have paid for and they have all gave her the same dates 12 weeks on sunday, the doc said if it were mine she would be at least 20 weeks, he said the scans can be off by a few days but not 6 weeks, we went the docs together and he told this to both of us but she is still saying its mine!!!!!!
when we had sex i didnt even *** in her i know that pre *** can get someone pregnant but not as much as full ***.
im sure the doctor know what he is talking about doesnt he, he said that he would know the differnce between a baby of 11 weeks and a baby of 19 weeks please help me

babezone

aww im sorry this has happend to you hun....the thing is only u no what to do the docs are right u cant be 6weeks out maybe a few days. its a huge responsability having a child let alone bringing up somebody elses.
i think u need to really think hard on what u actually want to do good luck x x x

leedsforever

sorry to hear this!! Scans and docs will not be 6 weeks out... Im sure the max is a couple of days!! Especially as you have had 3!!
precome I personally think is very unlikely to get someone preg especially as some men dont even get it!!

What is her explanation when you realised the dates dont add up?? Is she tryin to say the scan is wrong??!!

ilovemybump

im sorry to hear this happening to u, doctors def cant be out by that much :-/
if she is definately saying its yours, you could possible have dna tests done?

hope it all works out

sam's mum

The dating scans are usually pretty accurate as babies develop so fast in the first few weeks - they might be out by a week or so but I can't imagine that they would ever be out by 6 or 7 weeks.

Are you sure your dates are right though? The pregnancy is also dated from the first day of her last period (conception date being roughly 2 weeks later) so is there any chance you slept with her around that time?

I hope you get some truthful answers from her soon x

spenner25

she is saying that the scans must be wrong, but he mum told me she has had a peroid since me because she bought tampons for her. the doc said that he can say 100% that the baby is not mine & she sat there & agreed then when we got out she said it is yours.

sammie18

Im sorry this has happened to you, Why dont you guys get a DNA test after the baby is born to be for sure, I hope eveything goes well!

spenner25

i know the last day i slept with her was march 10th, i am 100% on that

leedsforever

but what sams mum means is that the day you sleep together your actually 2 weeks preg already!!!

spenner25

i know the doctor told me that so that would make her even further along wouldnt it? doc said that she convived early end of arpil early may for the dates on the ultrasound & shes sayin no it was march 10th it just doesnt add up even the doc said that to her