sam's mum

Which I now realise means that she'd be even further along - can't even think straight today...

If the doctor's saying that they baby can't have been conceived when you last had sex, I'd believe him. I'm so sorry she's doing this to you

Scans aren't going to be wrong with a healthy baby (has she had more than one scan?)

On all of my scans, the dates only varied by about 3 days from the size measurements they do - they're very accurate x

sam's mum

And if she truly believed that she was right, I wonder why she waited until the doctor wasn't there to dispute it. Only because she knew that he would tell her again that she was wrong, surely?

spenner25

yes shes had 3, 2 from the hospital, one at 5 weeks 5 days saying the baby was feeding from the yolk sac & the doc said if the baby was mine that scan would have shown the baby & the placenta not yolk sac, one at 10 weeks which i had to pay for and another at hospital at 11 n half weeks, they were all same dates one was just 2 days out

sam's mum

The there's no way that baby was conceived on 10th March, I'm sorry

I had a scan at 8 weeks and one at 12 weeks and the difference was unbelievable - one was a 2cm long kidney bean shape with a heartbeat, and one looked like a little baby.

And she can't claim that the scans have been wrong 3 times x

leedsforever

I agree with Sams mum she is completely trying to lie to you!!!

It must be really hard

spenner25

im not being mean but there is no way i want that baby to be mine, i mean if it was i would do everything i could to be the best daddy but i know its not. she will never make a good mother. i wish i could show you a picture of the 5 week scan she had but it wont let me post it

spenner25

sams mum i just sent u a private message with the scan
that scan was taken at 5 weeks 5 days and it was CRL 2.7mm
she was sayin to me that the baby was 12 weeks on that scan as that would have added up to me & her on 10th march

sam's mum

There's no way that scan is of a baby at 12 weeks! Google 12 week ultrasound and show her pics of exactly what babies do look like at 12 weeks (and also 6 weeks) x

spenner25

she just doesnt listen i will get dna done when the baby is born just to prove her wrong but that baby can not be mine can it, the doc is right isnt he

sam's mum

Yes he is - there are some scan pics at 12 weeks in this paper (which also show you the detail you'd see that far along, and roughly what CRL you would expect then):

http://www.asum.com.au/open/bulletin/crown_rump.pdf

Also, in their results it says 'At < 11 weeks the CRL predictive value is +/- 3 days'