Pregnancy - First Trimester

maddiwatts19 · Jul 8th, 2008, 00:41 AM

i felt exactly the same hun after my 2 angels...

sending you loads of

sweetie..

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LauraW · Jul 8th, 2008, 01:09 AM

I can't make judgments because I don't know her, but I can say that I am sorry that you've been through so much, and I hope that things work out better for you in the future!

6lilpigs · Jul 8th, 2008, 09:47 AM

I know of a lady with 4 children who did pretty much the same thing with all being premature babies and her more interested in the child benefit for her 'habit'. Her 4 th child now also has cerebral palsy. If you are healthy, a good mother and live for your children then they can be as close as you wish and be perfect but some people shouldn't be having children full stop. Good luck Tracie, hope its your turn soon.

Blah11 · Jul 8th, 2008, 10:01 AM

getting pregnant that soon is most def not a good idea

her poor body has had NO time to recover.

Blah11 · Jul 8th, 2008, 10:02 AM

Oh + I really hope you get your baby soon.

Blah11 · Jul 8th, 2008, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by trishk

Im sorry but i think you are being very unfair. I was in a similar position it had taken nearly 2 years to fall pregnant with my first son so myself and my husband decided we wouldn't use contraception as we thought it would take the same length of time. I fell pregnant after 3 months. There is one year and 2weeks between my boys and neither of them suffered I had enough love to go round. And they are so so close. They do everything together and get upset if they are split up. what is right for one person might not be for another and we shouldn't judge people! None of us are perfect!

I understand that but it's generally not a great idea to let your body be pregnant again so soon after. I want my children to be about 3 years apart so I'll be TTC when my LO is 18m-2years old.

Tracie87 · Jul 8th, 2008, 10:52 AM

i also didnt mention coz me being like a prat forgot she had 2 give birth via C section so the hospital will flip when they find out..

trishk · Jul 9th, 2008, 16:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Blah11

I understand that but it's generally not a great idea to let your body be pregnant again so soon after. I want my children to be about 3 years apart so I'll be TTC when my LO is 18m-2years old.

i understand that and i totally agree with you! As i know the second pregnancy is alot harder and you also have to deal with a newborn. My point was just that we don't know all the facts and i feel for her as people also talked about me and i know how hard that is. What she needs now is help and support. Maybe she was silly to get pregnant so soon but she has to deal with that. Its done now there is no going back!

trishk · Jul 9th, 2008, 16:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Tracie87

you obviously didnt read the whole first post the main thing was she had troubles with her first, and her fella doesnt earn enuff to support 2 babys and them. he didnt want the first one.
and i wrote it because there are people like me who are still waiting for our miricle.
that is my veiw on it.

I did read the first post all i was saying was that we shouldn't judge people my husband doesn't earn a fortune either but i love my kids and they don't go without. You are probably right about this lady especially after a C-Section its just i know how horrible it is to have people talking about your choices as it happened to me and i felt sorry for her. I really hope that you get your miracle soon. You seem to have been through a lot.

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