Tracie87

this is not really pregnancy related but i no all the ppl i tlk to are in here...

i feel a massive sence of guilt over me... i sit here and moan about loosing 4 pregnancys i cry and whinge... my ex is an asshole i hate him with all my life, he met a girl n she fell pregnant straight away i was jealous but i also thought he didnt deserve a kid he is far 2 selfish, and idiot, a kid himself and they had just met...
was just tlking 2 my ex's brother n he told me he was at a funeral last week.... my ex's baby died at 30 weeks.
i feel so god damn awful for moaning... i no i hate him but noway did he deserve that!!

toriaaaaTRASH

He probably didn't deserve his baby dying, but you can't blame yourself for being mad or jealous or having those feelings.

ellasmummy

I totally agree! It isnt your fault hun it is normal to feel things like that. What has happened to him is an awful thing but dont feel down, your not wrong! x

charveyron

Sweetheart - firstly I am sorry for your 4 losses. Your ex didn't deserve that but it's only natural that you'd have unrational thoughts about him and his new g/friend having a baby - it's very sad that they lost their baby but you mustn't feel bad for having horrible thoughts it would have happened even if you had been really happy for them. Sorry I'm not too great at finding words, but I just wanted to say its ok.!

charveyron

See Toria why vouldn't I just say something simple and meaningful like you???? I'm a bit crap with words but I mean well!!!!!!

elm

I think you're lovely and an amazing person. You've got absoutely nothing to feel like a fraud for at all, please don't be hard on yourself - you don't deserve it xxx

spelbound

We dont control how we feel hun. Thats what makes them 'feelings'. Fate is fate, and nothing you could think or feel would have changed anything about their situation. Dont beat yourself up about it babe.