CapitalChick

Ladies,
Did you have sex when you found out you were pregnant? What about for the first few weeks? I'm so scared that if I have an orgasm that's really strong, I'll miscarry.
DH wants to...but I'm so worried

mernie

I've had sex since i found out i was pregnant and everythings been just fine no bleeding or anything and i've had 2 misscarriages in the past so i was a bit concerned about it as well but it doesn't hurt anything cause the baby is protected from it. but if you're not comfortable with it still yet then just don't if it doesn't make you comfortable then its nothing you should concern yourself with. best wishes

Blah11

Yes I did + no problems or bleeding.

emmajane

Everything will be fine! We had sex all the way through and no problems. They say only to stop if you have been told specifically by the GP not to have sex if there is a problem later on etc.

shimmyshimmy

Well, everyone here has said it is fine, but I understand your concern. I am afraid I have banned my husband for the next few weeks. Even though we have two other children and we bd through both previous pregnancies, because of my miscarriage in December I am way more careful, and worried about doing it.
Perhaps I am being a bit silly, but it is just the way your mind operates.
The thing is the change from ttc to now has been a bit of a shock for him.LOL,
XXX

Mervs Mum

We didnt do it until I was past 12 weeks - we were both too nervous and I didnt really want to either. We havent done it as much as we would normally for the same reasons. OH is bothered about hurting me or the LO and now my belly is making it difficult. We found other ways of being intimate but lots of people just go for it - there's no evidence to say you shouldnt.

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kadey

I lost my drive very early on, think it was partly to do with a previous mc aswel. if you dont feel comfortable then just wait. there are other ways to 'enjoy each other' than sex lol enjoy

o0oCharlieo0o

i did and infact probably more than before lol and iv had no problems, but if you are worried then dont do it, it wont be fun for you if you are worrying xxx

spelbound

OH didnt want to at first - I think its normal when you feel crappy. Since about week 8 we've been carrying on as normal...just not as often. Everything is fine, no bleeding etc. As far as I know you can continue as normal as long as it does not cause you to bleed or cramp.

xxxjacquixxx

Im the same here, Ive banned oh until im past the 12 week mark. Partly due to my m/c in april and something a medium told me earlier in the year 'when I catch I am to be careful of oh ontop of me when getting intimate???' prolly a load of crap but the thought is still there!

Poor oh doesnt know whats hit him!