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codegirl

I have never experienced anything like that, but IMHO she does sound jealous to me.

shimmyshimmy

Doesnt she just, tell her to grow up, she must be at least 18 to be drinking, or maybe not, but anyway, sisters should be happy for one another.

xxx

sammie18

what a bitch

XKatX

Sounds to me like she's jeoulous hon. why don't you try spending some qaulity time together? Just the 2 of you, maybe some shopping for the day, or going to the cinema? Sometimes when people are drunk and say things, it's not necessarily what they mean - they just lash out and say nasty things without thinking.
Other people calling her a bitch won't help the situation here.

Lois

Definitely jealousy. It sounds like she really needs to grow up. I think it's really important that you remind yourself it is her insecurity talking rather that her true self. Try not to react because it will only be fuel to the fire. Let her dig herself a hole- she'll soon realise what a bitch she's being.

Hope you're ok. Don't let it get to you.

Lxx

polo_princess

Mmmm i agree deffo sounds like she's jealous, i mean she's your sister and is supposed to love you, why on earth else would she say such mean things?

Angego

hey everyone! thanks for your comments, i agree kat, maybe it would be good for us to spend some quality time together...this morning she came and woke me up and said that she is sorry and that she is happy for me..she didn't remember what she said..but i think she realised that she had been being a bitch!!

thanks xxx

AnnaBanana9

I definitely think she's feeling left out and jealous - which are perfectly normal emotions. However, you're also perfectly normal to be so hurt by it all.

I agree with Kat - maybe some time together just the 2 of you doing something you both enjoy will help.

enigma

I think maybe you should tell her that she is lucky not to be tied down, having a partner and kids is great, but its also great to make the most of your freedom and independence.

Just remind her that she has her whole life in front of her so make the most of being young.

Id also have a word with her about binge drinking and the damage she could be causing to her body, but id do the reassuring thing first.

As for you, i know its upsetting for you, but rise above it, be the stronger person.
Have a word with your sis and i bet you feel great after because you will have addressed the situation and you will feel proud of your self for not letting it go to far.

Good luck and i hope you sort it out soon.