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Jun 21st, 2008, 23:34 PM
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#1 | | ttc after m/c Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | In Limbo....
I'm trying to take things hour by hour just now. I have finished with my tears and tantrums (well more or less lol!) but I really just need to know.
(I say nearly because I cried in the car today on the way to my MIL's. I explained to hubby that I was scared the dogs' would smell a 'dead smell' and bark at me and stuff. They didn't.....)
On the one hand....
boobs have deflated and aren't sore or full anymore
Red blood for 5 days
Cramps for 2.5 days
On the other....
Blood flow has started to taper off, albeit it's still there
Cramps although different to the cramps I had experienced till that point were never strong enough for painkillers
I was sick on Friday afternoon with no reason
I'm still shattered by 5pm
I still want my pasta!!
I just want to know if my baby is alive or dead. Would a miscarriage take this long to manifest properly, or am I in for a day of misery tomorrow?
I had HCG taken on Friday and another lot due for Monday.
Scan booked for 9.15am Thursday 26th June. |
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Jun 21st, 2008, 23:52 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Ooo hun I really wish I had the power to fast-forward time so that you could get your blood test results and get an idea on your hcg levels!!!!! Sounds like you're still having symptoms though so surely hcg levels must be high!?
My m/c experience was very different as it was 'silent'.
I'm keeping everything crossed for you xxxx |
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Jun 22nd, 2008, 01:14 AM
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Jun 22nd, 2008, 02:36 AM
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I am so sorry that you are going through this. My m/c wasn't like that I had cramps so bad that I thought my uterus was twisting right out. So he fact that your cramps arent that bad is a good sign. |
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Jun 22nd, 2008, 11:39 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Nic I really dont know what to say hun. What you are going through is horrible and I hope I(we) never have to go through the same. If I had magic words to speak then I'd say them, but nothing I say is going to make anything better for you. I'm just hoping for the best for you. |
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Jun 22nd, 2008, 12:13 PM
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| hang in there lovely you head must be in pieces!!
Try and relax and im sure you will have your answers soon x |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | im so sorry for what you are going through you must be going out of our mind with worry, sending you lots of hugs hun xxx |
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