Angego

during pregnancy, is it ok to , i wont with my OH cause i heard that it can cause miscarriage... this baby is so special to me...i dont realy wanna risk it..what's everyone elses view?

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bexy_22

Sex won't cause a miscarriage. So get bouncing! If you feel like it that is!

Freya

I think.... speaking generally sex is fine during pregnancy unless you have had some bleeding problems along the way or probs with a previous pregnancy. Then they say to chat to your doc or midwife about it.

Sex can't harm the bub. Sex is good.... very good!!!

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Vickie

It is okay. The only time doctors will tell you not to BD during pregnancy is if they find that you have a weak cervix or if you are carrying multiples. But for most people BDing is just fine, and it doesn't cause a miscarriage. Now whether you feel like it.......that's another story

helen1234

oh no lol, i've made my oh wait for the last 4 weeks or so now already haha, like yourself this baby is sooo precious to us and it took ages for me to concieve i'd given up all hope then hey presto... da derrrr
oh well it hasnt harmed him...

o0oCharlieo0o

dont worry yourself sex is fine as long as you have no bleeding

Angego

thankyou!! you have helped put me at ease!! im still not sure wether to do it yet though...I think im gonna wait until i have passed the 12 weeks..thats if i can wait till then :s ..thanks for all your advice!!

happy&healthy

I don't think I could go more then 2 days without some BD. We just take it more gently then normal.

insomnimama

I don't know if it is reasonable to expect your partner to go without for no good reason. Just sayin...

spelbound

Ye that what we are doing now. Though she just didnt feel up to it for ages. I think its a decision you have to make between you and your OH. I dont think there is a right or wrong answer as it depends on your own personal circumstances and how you feel about it. No swinging from the light fittings though eh..:-P