Angego

yeah, i do feel really guilty..i guess im just scared!

spelbound

Dont worry I think most people's partners will understand (well I hope so). And if it really is a prob for him then there are other things you could do instead....sorry TMI.

o0oCharlieo0o

i think your oh will understand perfectly if you dont feel ready, i didnt do anything till just the other day because i was worried (had a lot of crampin and a few pink blood spotting) and he understands perfectly, i think your worrying IS a good reason not to do anything, better than stressing yourself out!