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Old Jun 12th, 2008, 10:36 AM   #11
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I disagree. If you really couldn't walk b/c of the cramping then fine, but some people go to the hospital about every little niggle. When they're using the ultrasound machine that means someone else can't and that someone else might REALLY need it.
That's a bit unfair, because if the mother is worrying, that isn't good, if you get checked out it puts the mothers mind at rest and makes things more healthy. If there is something to be concerned about the docs can pick it up, and if there isn't then at least mum feels better.
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Old Jun 12th, 2008, 10:39 AM   #12
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That's a bit harsh, because if the mother is worrying, that isn't good, if you get checked out it puts the mothers mind at rest and makes things more healthy. If there is something to be concerned about the docs can pick it up, and if there isn't then at least mum feels better.
Well I don't know if you're aware of this but A LOT of expecting mothers randomly make up symptoms so they get to see the baby. It really annoys me b/c that's using up the space for someone who truely needs it. Like i said, it's fine if there's a genuine concern and she shouldn't feel stupid if the cramping was so bad she couldn't walk but going everytime you get a bit of wind or cramping is ridiculous.
Our bodies are going through a lot of changes and obviously you're going to get bloating and aches here and there.
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Old Jun 12th, 2008, 10:40 AM   #13
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Old Jun 12th, 2008, 10:48 AM   #14
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Don't worry at all hun - you 100% did the right thing. If its your first pregnancy (which I don't know if it is) then how are you meant to know what is normal and what isn't, and even if its not your first every pregnancy is different so if something is worrying you then it is your absolute right to get checked over.. The Dr's wouldn't have scanned if they didn't think it was needed, please don't ever feel stupid for raising your concerns with your Dr or Midwife as that is what they are there for.

Glad everything seemed to be fine with your babies xx
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Old Jun 12th, 2008, 10:50 AM   #15
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thankyou !! yes it is y frst baby but have suffered 2 m/c previously x
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Hello Sweetie, if the cramping was bad enough that you were worried about it in the first place to such an extent you would consider going to the hospital, I think you were right to go. Especially with the history of two m/c. I think you should have gone and had every right to. If you hadn't have gone and something was wrong, then I'd be more concerned. I hope you're okay sweetie <3
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Old Jun 12th, 2008, 11:08 AM   #17
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thankyou so much!! i reall apreciate every ones reassurance xx
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Nope you did the right thing. I took Amy on Sat night cos she couldnt stop being sick. Better safe than sorry.
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