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May 28th, 2008, 16:02 PM
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#1 | | Mother2one,Expecting #2 Active BnB member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  The most horrible day of my life
So yesterday I went to the dr. I went to my old Dr because the new one called to reschedule. Yesterday I was so happy getting ready for my appointment. I expected to go there and then get another appt for my 13 week scan. No. I Get there,sit for about 10 minutes. I get called to the back. So He does a urine test and is taking forever. So he comes back and tells me to put this gown on. So you know,he's all diggin around down there. So he looks at me and says "your baby has been dead". I start to cry and he says "honey all that crying wont bring your baby back. It has been dead for about a week." I want to kick him in the face. I will never go back to that doctor for anything. I had a d&c yesterday and now I am bleeding like I was gutted. I feel like my body has betrayed me. I have one beautiful child. Why can't I do that again? Just one more time? I don't know how I feel right now. I am pissed and hurt and just very confused about my body. I thought I was healthy. I can't even do the main thing that women are designed for. |
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May 28th, 2008, 16:04 PM
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May 28th, 2008, 16:05 PM
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| I am so so sorry to hear of your loss...what an insensitive way to tell you! Lots of women miscarry and go on to have happyhealthy children. I know this wont be much help to you now but it really doesnt mean you wont be able to have more children. Just allow yourself time to grieve for the one you have lost. Sorry I cant be more help. xx |
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May 28th, 2008, 16:08 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh sweetheart.....That is heart breaking. Not just the horrendous news that w*nker gave to you, but the way in which he treated you!!
You should report him!!!
I am so, so sorry hun
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May 28th, 2008, 16:09 PM
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May 28th, 2008, 16:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | So sorry for your loss. You can't blame yourself though, it was nothing you did or didn't do, unfortunately sometimes it does happen (for no apparent reason) that women lose their babies. It doesn't make you any less of a woman.  |
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May 28th, 2008, 16:13 PM
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May 28th, 2008, 16:15 PM
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| Im so sorry hun, did the doctor do a scan? how many weeks were u? u should really complain about him for how he handled the situation.
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May 28th, 2008, 16:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | How could he tell just by doing an internal? Did you have a scan as well?
What an awful way to be told!! Lots of hugs coming your way xxx |
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May 28th, 2008, 16:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | WTF is wrong with your doctor!? OMG! Does he not have any compassion!?
Honey, I am so sorry to hear of your news. |
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