Stressing out (again!!)

Mo_mo · May 20th, 2008, 06:49 AM

This is my first pregnancy (coming upto 6 wks now) and I cant stop worrying.... every time i go to the loo i sit there and analyze the bog roll looking for the slightest trace of blood or everytime i get a cramp im convinced im miscarrying, i've spoken to my mum and oh about it and they tell me not to worry but thats easier said than done really.....

ARRRRGHHHH dunno what to do, i sitting at my work desk pretending to work and i want to cry but not sure why

HELP!

Lucy_lu_84 · May 20th, 2008, 06:54 AM

aww * hugs* It is much easier said than done to not worry!
But seriously try not to stress to much - it's not good for either of you!

It's pretty natural to worry - you just can't help it. I'm so anxious still - scared about my first scan! But hun just try and stay positive

PeanutBean · May 20th, 2008, 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Mo_mo

This is my first pregnancy (coming upto 6 wks now) and I cant stop worrying.... every time i go to the loo i sit there and analyze the bog roll looking for the slightest trace of blood or everytime i get a cramp im convinced im miscarrying, i've spoken to my mum and oh about it and they tell me not to worry but thats easier said than done really.....

Oh, you sound like me! I'm like that too. Have you had any bleeding though? I have three times now and a scan at 8 weeks where all looked fine. I had loads of cramps from the day my period was due until about 7 or 8 weeks. Now I don't have aches at all but I can still feel my womb a lot of the time. Not painfully, just sort of full (though my bowel doesn't help with that I'm sure!).

It's impossible not to worry in my experience but I find having a good cry normally helps a lot. I cry every night when I feel really sick and also when I feel dead worried then it makes me relieved and I cheer up again. It's an up and down thing! When it comes down to it there's not really anything you can do either way. It's the worst of all waiting games!

Serene123 · May 20th, 2008, 07:02 AM

Everyone worries. I was convinced I would lose my baby and the first time I saw blood on that tissue.. I can't even explain it. I was distrort! Hearing the words "threatened miscarriage" and being told to "wait and see" were the worst two things I've ever heard in my life.

In the first tri I had the worst cramps ever, red bleeding, pink bleeding and then contractions at 20 weeks and look where I am now! Good luck with everything and worry all you want. There is, after all, a little person inside you. (Whom I'm sure will be just fine!)

Blah11 · May 20th, 2008, 07:17 AM

I'm the exact same. I'm petrified of losing this baby but there's not a lot you can do. If you miscarry it's for a reason and the babies just not meant to be.

I'm 9 weeks now (woopee) and I'm counting down the days to week 12. I've had no bleeding or bad cramps but I'm still very worried about going to my first scan and seeing no heartbeat.

Lets send eachother sticky thoughts

x

Carlyanne15 · May 20th, 2008, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Mo_mo

This is my first pregnancy (coming upto 6 wks now) and I cant stop worrying.... every time i go to the loo i sit there and analyze the bog roll looking for the slightest trace of blood or everytime i get a cramp im convinced im miscarrying, i've spoken to my mum and oh about it and they tell me not to worry but thats easier said than done really.....

HELP!

you and me both babe, i had implantation bleeding day for a few days which freaked me out as this was my first round of Clomid and never spotted before, and GP advised it could be implantation bleeding and turned out she was right, and no every time i sit on the loo i have a panic.... OH said he understands however try be positive which i am, cant wait so excited but at the same time i've a underlining fear!!!!

lets hope all this gets easier babes...... and relax..... if we can

to one and all feeling the same

xXDonnaXx · May 20th, 2008, 07:49 AM

We all worry hun, your not on your own. I was the same as you, worrying when I went toilet, incase there was clots, and thinking the worst. But you can't help but worry. Just try not too worry too much and look forward too your scan. Hope you have a happy & healthy 9months.

dannigizmo · May 20th, 2008, 08:06 AM

Hey hun, dont worry your are definatly not alone, i am exactly the same and examine toliet roll and worry about every ache that am going to lose the bub. Everyone says not to worry but how can you not!! Right now i feel like am going to get my period and 8 BFP's over the last week still dont put my mine at rest!

Hopefully after our 12 week scan we will worry a little less.

xxx

thelilbump · May 20th, 2008, 08:10 AM

Thats exactly how i was and tbh still am! I think its prob a pretty natural reaction, worry and caring. Just try not to get too anxious because that won't do any good

brownhairedmom · May 20th, 2008, 09:03 AM

I do this too. Everytime I go to the washroom I have to check and make sure there's no blood. I think everyone around here TP checks haha. We're all a paranoid bunch of pregnant women. Its completely natural to worry about every ache and pain and constantly worry that there is something wrong. I think it comes with the territory.

May 20th, 2008, 06:49 AM	#1
Mo_mo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: London Posts: 170	Stressing out (again!!) This is my first pregnancy (coming upto 6 wks now) and I cant stop worrying.... every time i go to the loo i sit there and analyze the bog roll looking for the slightest trace of blood or everytime i get a cramp im convinced im miscarrying, i've spoken to my mum and oh about it and they tell me not to worry but thats easier said than done really..... ARRRRGHHHH dunno what to do, i sitting at my work desk pretending to work and i want to cry but not sure why HELP!

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May 20th, 2008, 06:54 AM	#2
Lucy_lu_84 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Rugby Posts: 3,622	aww * hugs* It is much easier said than done to not worry! But seriously try not to stress to much - it's not good for either of you! It's pretty natural to worry - you just can't help it. I'm so anxious still - scared about my first scan! But hun just try and stay positive

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May 20th, 2008, 07:02 AM	#4
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	Everyone worries. I was convinced I would lose my baby and the first time I saw blood on that tissue.. I can't even explain it. I was distrort! Hearing the words "threatened miscarriage" and being told to "wait and see" were the worst two things I've ever heard in my life. In the first tri I had the worst cramps ever, red bleeding, pink bleeding and then contractions at 20 weeks and look where I am now! Good luck with everything and worry all you want. There is, after all, a little person inside you. (Whom I'm sure will be just fine!)

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May 20th, 2008, 07:17 AM	#5
Blah11 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 32,873	I'm the exact same. I'm petrified of losing this baby but there's not a lot you can do. If you miscarry it's for a reason and the babies just not meant to be. I'm 9 weeks now (woopee) and I'm counting down the days to week 12. I've had no bleeding or bad cramps but I'm still very worried about going to my first scan and seeing no heartbeat. Lets send eachother sticky thoughts x

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May 20th, 2008, 07:49 AM	#7
xXDonnaXx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Hindley Posts: 5,149	We all worry hun, your not on your own. I was the same as you, worrying when I went toilet, incase there was clots, and thinking the worst. But you can't help but worry. Just try not too worry too much and look forward too your scan. Hope you have a happy & healthy 9months.

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May 20th, 2008, 08:06 AM	#8
dannigizmo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: ayrshire Posts: 281	Hey hun, dont worry your are definatly not alone, i am exactly the same and examine toliet roll and worry about every ache that am going to lose the bub. Everyone says not to worry but how can you not!! Right now i feel like am going to get my period and 8 BFP's over the last week still dont put my mine at rest! Hopefully after our 12 week scan we will worry a little less. xxx

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May 20th, 2008, 08:10 AM	#9
thelilbump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: lancashire Posts: 9,670	Thats exactly how i was and tbh still am! I think its prob a pretty natural reaction, worry and caring. Just try not to get too anxious because that won't do any good

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May 20th, 2008, 09:03 AM	#10
brownhairedmom Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 6,444	I do this too. Everytime I go to the washroom I have to check and make sure there's no blood. I think everyone around here TP checks haha. We're all a paranoid bunch of pregnant women. Its completely natural to worry about every ache and pain and constantly worry that there is something wrong. I think it comes with the territory.

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