The thread to rant about your OH

Because every now and then we need to...

I only have one pair of jeans that fit. I asked him to do a load of washing, he didn't. He thought I could wear my normal jeans. Yeah sure right. Sucky part, I had to quickly wash them because I have my first doctors appointment today and scan. Men pfffft.

hmm my SO is pretty good. I dont have any complaints, except he keeps touching my boobs and I told him it was annoying today ha ha... poor guy... he looked like he was just told his puppy died.

Awwww poor man but they can be annoying

Originally Posted by Carley

Awwww poor man but they can be annoying

very... he wont leave me alone when im home, it must be because im pregnant. He has some weird instinct to touch my boobs all the time.

Originally Posted by ryder

very... he wont leave me alone when im home, it must be because im pregnant. He has some weird instinct to touch my boobs all the time.

Just wait until they start leaking! That might keep him away for awhile!

I only found out yesterday that I am pregnant so, my DH keeps asking me am I sure, am I 100% sure, those HPt's can be wrong can't they?! Talk about driving me nuts!!!! I'm only 4.5wks gone gawd help me with the rest of my time!!!!

tbh my OH has been very good ... apart from trying to breathe his cold germs all over me in bed at night ...

Guess im one of the luckier ones!!

My oh is doing ok !

The computer broke monday evening and he took it straight to his friends that night to get it fixed as he knew i may be a little grumpy without my BnB fix !!

hey ladies,

it saddens me to say that my oh just hasnt been there. His been out almost every night in 5wks he comes homes gets changed goes gym, then out till 10-11pm he has loads of pals and family and has always been busy but not like this.

its like he doesnt wnat to be around me, he hasnt taken on any of the house hold chores or cooked a meal since i found out a few wks ago i was pregnant..
he said his out cause im grumpy n he dont want to argue but im not bad all the time its my hormones n him being out dont help im not the funnist person to be round at the mo with neusea,fatigue etc but im not the worse.
i dont want him bout al the time id kill him but atleast 1 days tats ours...

it would also be nice if he would ask if i need anything like a back rub, pepermint t, food etc but he dont his sooooo selfish...

i love him very much and weve been ttc forever n now i feel that he doesnt want to be with me n if it wasnt for the baby he'd be gone..

ive tried talking to him n texting,emailing etc he doesnt listen ...

any ideas of hw to talk to him i feel that if he carries on that will be it for us

x

Thats a really tough one but you are just going tohave to try to talk to him and make him understand how you are feeling. I think early pregnancy is a very overwhelming time for most men but im sure the majority come round! You have the baby to help make you feel connected where as I suppose they feel a little out of the loop. Just try to talk to him and hopefully he will listen.