Hi all,

Just wondering when you all told your other children you were pg. I'm 12 weeks tomorrow but just ween told my scan won't be for another 1-2 weeks and was going to tell my soon after that, thing is i'm piling weight on my bump and keep slipping up with things i say around my eleven year old and don't want him to find out like that. I've had three m/c but had an early scan with this one at 8 weeks and all is well so far and all the signs are still positive.

If you were in my position what would you do?

Thanks xxx

im in the same position with my partners daughter. its hard cause they lost a baby together late on too and she is aware of it so we dont know when to tell her

It's so hard isn't it? You try and protect your kids from the world but then in the same breath it'd be nice to share the experience and not let him find out by accident so to speak x

its tricky i think we are going to wait till im showing and she guesses lol

i told my kids when i was 8 weeks , well i thought if i did have a m/c early on then they are old enough to understand as i had told my mum , my sisters & brothers so didn,t want them finding out from anyone else . violet xx

i told all my kids the same day as i get a positive test they are more considerate to and help me out loads there well pleased

Thinking about telling him this weekend at some point am dreading the reaction as we've had a few slip ups...i'd be mortified if he said i already know lol

bless i hope it goes well

Well we chickened out of telling him today partly because my OH has gone home feeling sorry forhimself after a night on the town lol

lol i read in your journal!! bless him he needs a rest after all the nits...