I go for my ultrasound on the 7th, and to me seeing a heartbeat means little, it doesn't ease the fear. The past two pregnancies I lost after seeing the heartbeats. I'm just scared it will happen again, and if it does I don't think I could handle it. They are looking for triploidy (triple chromosomes not viable with life), the reasons I lost the babies last time. I'm just scared I'm going to ask for another scan after 8 weeks because we lost the babies then but triploidy doesn't show until 8 weeks plus.

Thanks suz

i am sure all will be fine and well hun! worrying can't be good for bean, your little bean would want you to have a smile on your face!! I know it's so hard 'not knowing' and having a constant worry and fear...just try to think positive. Everything will be alright!!

Trust me hun, I'm trying but the fear is overwhelming

big hugs carley. Really hope you get good news this time. Its impossible not to worry but try and stay as calm as you can and get lots if rest, there's nothing you can do x x

Hun please try not to worry

aww im sure things will be fine hun,but you can try asking for another scan a few weeks after that 1,i got scanned at 7 wks but didnt ease my fear as last time baby died at 8wks so they agreed to scan me at 9wks as well just for reassurance,had that one now so just waiting for 12wk one now.Its worth asking youve nothing to loose

Carley. Easier said than done, I know, but try and keep positive. Bean would want you smiling. Hope everything works out for you.

good luck for your scan and try not to worry, i know it's easier said than done but do try hun, thinking positive thoughts for you xx