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Old May 1st, 2008, 11:30 AM   #1
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Of all the things I thought I would be when I got pregnant worried was not one of them. I am so worried that I am starting to feel so low. I cannot stop thinking about something bad happening. Although I have seen LO heart beat I still keep thinking I am going to have another mc and I cannot seem to stop going over it in my head. Like this morning i woke up and my boobs don't hurt as much as normal and i started to panic that I was going to have a mc. I feel sick and tiered all i want to do is go home and cry in bed as I feel so down.
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Old May 1st, 2008, 11:32 AM   #2
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babes i think the emotional way you're feeling is just a bit sign of the pregnancy, so try and see that bit as positive. But you will worry about such things, just try to cling on to the hope sweetie. <3
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Old May 1st, 2008, 11:40 AM   #3
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Hiya it's completely normal to have these worries esp after going through the pain of a mc. I was the same as you at 8 weeks and even after my scan i didn't think everything was ok havng had 3 mc in the past, it's taken me til now to start feeling more positive about things. I know its hard but try not to worry too much. they say after seeing or hearing a heart beat after 6 weeks gives a 90-95% chance of carrying the baby through so just take it easy and keep thinking positive thoughts hun. thinking of you at this hard time x

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Oh sweetie

Don't worry about worrying

I have days where the worry of everything gets me so down that I want to go home and get into my bed and I vet you 99.9% of women feel this way at some point or another. Especially during early pregnancy

Your hormones won't help this either or your symptoms. Being tired and feeling sick just makes it seem worse doesn't it? Tiredness especially.

Try and take as much time out for yourself as you can. Sleep when you need to sleep and cry when you need to cry And if something is worrying to absolute insanity then see if you can speak with a Dr or midwife about it. Even just a quick chat on the phone with a MW might help settle you a bit.

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I think it must be a 7 week low...I had it too and I know alot of other woment on here did as well. We will never stop worrying completely but you really do have to try and stay positive. The odds are hugely in your favour for having a happy healthy pregnancy, if the lottery had those odds id be playing every week.

Chin up! Im sure it will all be fine
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Aww hun

Please try not to worry
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Stephanie, I too am finding this all very scarey after having a miscarriage a few months ago... there is not much we can do but try to take things a moment at a time really. It's all a bit maddening, and that 'innocence' of a trouble free pregnancy has gone for people who have had a loss.
I don't really have much advice, I myself am just trying to go one day at a time and trust - but it is very hard.
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Of all the things I thought I would be when I got pregnant worried was not one of them. I am so worried that I am starting to feel so low. I cannot stop thinking about something bad happening. Although I have seen LO heart beat I still keep thinking I am going to have another mc and I cannot seem to stop going over it in my head. Like this morning i woke up and my boobs don't hurt as much as normal and i started to panic that I was going to have a mc. I feel sick and tiered all i want to do is go home and cry in bed as I feel so down.
the joys of being pregnant hunny we all worry ur not the only one i went threw a depression stage about a month ago bab seemed to help me out of it u think u worry now tho u wait till ur babys born it carrys on for the rest of your life oh the joys hey lol
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Thanks so much for all your kind words. It has cheered me up a bit. I am going to leave work early today and go home and have a rest. I just feel so drained and it is probably not helping. I am just finding it really hard not to worry and I know it is probably normal but I never thought i would be like this. I just so want everything to be okay, just like all of you, but I seem to be driving myself mad. thanks again xxx
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Your not alone stephanie.....i think the whole of the pregnancy is worying...you worry throughout first trimester, then worry through to your 20 week scan that everything will be ok then you worry that the baby will stay in til its healthy enough to be born and then we worry about the birth and the baby coming out of it all right...before i got pg i thought it was all sweetness and light like off the telly!! rest lots and do things you enjoy to perk yourself up like eating chocolate and having nice bubble baths!! I felt down a month or so around your time too ....i even felt trapped by being pregnant but as the months go on it does get better xx
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