Think this is the beginning of the end for me - Page 2

Femme.fatale. · Mar 20th, 2010, 09:50 AM

Oh Skyrocket, I hope it isn't so! You and bubs are in my thoughts! Try and stay positive and get lots of rest, that's about all you can do! I have my fingers crossed for you.

Xox
femme

skyrocket · Mar 20th, 2010, 10:04 AM

Thanks girls, my tummy feels a bit gripy but I don't know whether I am bringing that on by worrying. You know what its like, when you focus on something it seems to intensify. The browny pin k discharge is there when I wipe and I get little streaks of it on my knickers. I think if I lose bubs it will kind of be worse because I saw the HB so I know bubs was ok and its my body that let it down xxxx

Lizzyxxx · Mar 20th, 2010, 10:14 AM

Im really thinking of you, i just made my own thread as i am worried about myself too, i read yours and it is making me cry.

Gemskii · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:15 PM

Hi hun i'm 9 weeks and i had a scare at 7 week's i had had bad cramping from the start and spotting which calmed down but then at 7 week's i had a big bleed with clots which sent me in to a panick but after having scan everything was fine they said it can happen and they sometimes cant explain why, (I know it dosen't stop you panicking) keep thinking positive everything crossed for you x x

chocolate · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:26 PM

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Originally Posted by skyrocket

Thanks girls, my tummy feels a bit gripy but I don't know whether I am bringing that on by worrying. You know what its like, when you focus on something it seems to intensify. The browny pin k discharge is there when I wipe and I get little streaks of it on my knickers. I think if I lose bubs it will kind of be worse because I saw the HB so I know bubs was ok and its my body that let it down xxxx

Hi, Im sorry your having to go through this worry. I just wanted to say if the worst happens dont blame yourself, there is so much developing to be done between 6 and 13 weeks even after seeing a heartbeat. I had a miscarriage at about 12 weeks but never got to have a scan to know if it was a blighted ovum, if baby had died nearer to 12 weeks or what, and I have now comforted myself in the fact that conception and creating a baby is such a delicate process, that it would be more common for something to be wrong with an individual egg or sperm, rather than my body causing the miscarriage if you see what I mean.

I hope the spotting stops and you have a scan to confirm all is ok, so many ladies spot in pregnancy especially in the early weeks xx

Worrisome · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:37 PM

Aw hun

thinking of you and praying for you. I had a little bleed with both boys for no reason at all and they where both fine, though very frightening

skyrocket · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:47 PM

Thank you girls. Dont know what I would do without you to talk to. My tummy is starting to hurt a bit now so I think this is it. The brown discharge has been coming all day andnow my tummy hurting so I think its the worst xxxx

chocolate · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:51 PM

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Originally Posted by skyrocket

Thank you girls. Dont know what I would do without you to talk to. My tummy is starting to hurt a bit now so I think this is it. The brown discharge has been coming all day andnow my tummy hurting so I think its the worst xxxx

Have you rang the out of hours docs or got a scan arranged? With my miscarriage the cramps lasted a good 8 hours or so before it happenned and I had to take some paracetemol, maybe your body is just having a clear out of old blood or linning - I have heard a nurse say this before.
I really hope its just one of those things, the bldy getting rid of old blood or something

skyrocket · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:55 PM

Well I'm at my OH in Leeds and I went to the EPU yesterday near me so even if I ring the EPU near here I doubt they will see me as I had a scan yesterday. You know what its like theres nothing they can do anyway so I guess I just have to wait it out. I kind of wish if it was happening it would just get on with it that being dragged out over several days where I have moments of hope only to get them dashed by more spotting and pain xxxx

chocolate · Mar 20th, 2010, 13:59 PM

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Well I'm at my OH in Leeds and I went to the EPU yesterday near me so even if I ring the EPU near here I doubt they will see me as I had a scan yesterday. You know what its like theres nothing they can do anyway so I guess I just have to wait it out. I kind of wish if it was happening it would just get on with it that being dragged out over several days where I have moments of hope only to get them dashed by more spotting and pain xxxx

I know what you mean, I remember just being in limbo just waiting, then I was shocked when it happened but kind of relieved that I could get on with being upset ifuswim.
May be worth giving your local one a ring to see if you can get booked in for a few days time anyway, because even if the spotting stops you will still worry, and if it gets worse then you may want to have it confirmed either way. I asked my dr for a scan just so I didnt hold out false hope. Maybe see what happens over the weekend and ring them Monday xx

Mar 20th, 2010, 09:50 AM	#11
Femme.fatale. Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 485	Oh Skyrocket, I hope it isn't so! You and bubs are in my thoughts! Try and stay positive and get lots of rest, that's about all you can do! I have my fingers crossed for you. Xox femme

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Mar 20th, 2010, 10:04 AM	#12
skyrocket Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 200	Thanks girls, my tummy feels a bit gripy but I don't know whether I am bringing that on by worrying. You know what its like, when you focus on something it seems to intensify. The browny pin k discharge is there when I wipe and I get little streaks of it on my knickers. I think if I lose bubs it will kind of be worse because I saw the HB so I know bubs was ok and its my body that let it down xxxx

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Mar 20th, 2010, 10:14 AM	#13
Lizzyxxx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: England Posts: 2,198	Im really thinking of you, i just made my own thread as i am worried about myself too, i read yours and it is making me cry.

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Mar 20th, 2010, 13:15 PM	#14
Gemskii Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Lancashire Posts: 122	Hi hun i'm 9 weeks and i had a scare at 7 week's i had had bad cramping from the start and spotting which calmed down but then at 7 week's i had a big bleed with clots which sent me in to a panick but after having scan everything was fine they said it can happen and they sometimes cant explain why, (I know it dosen't stop you panicking) keep thinking positive everything crossed for you x x

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Mar 20th, 2010, 13:37 PM	#16
Worrisome Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: Lancashire Posts: 4,438	Aw hun thinking of you and praying for you. I had a little bleed with both boys for no reason at all and they where both fine, though very frightening

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Mar 20th, 2010, 13:47 PM	#17
skyrocket Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 200	Thank you girls. Dont know what I would do without you to talk to. My tummy is starting to hurt a bit now so I think this is it. The brown discharge has been coming all day andnow my tummy hurting so I think its the worst xxxx

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Mar 20th, 2010, 13:55 PM	#19
skyrocket Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: UK Posts: 200	Well I'm at my OH in Leeds and I went to the EPU yesterday near me so even if I ring the EPU near here I doubt they will see me as I had a scan yesterday. You know what its like theres nothing they can do anyway so I guess I just have to wait it out. I kind of wish if it was happening it would just get on with it that being dragged out over several days where I have moments of hope only to get them dashed by more spotting and pain xxxx

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