sacha

I seem to have turned into the bitch form hell recently. Now that I know there is going to be someone else in my life that I am responsible for, all the little things that used to be minor niggled regarding my OH, I am now so focused on that I seem to be continuosly on the verge of kicking him out. I suddenly feel that he is lazy, irresponsible, unreliable, and needs to get his bloody arse in gear and find a job. I feel like there is no love in our relationship any more.
Now dont get me wrong when he wants to, he is brilliant, and knuckles down. We run a horse breeding business together but for some time I have been saying he will have to go and work full time as we dont have enough money coming in form the horses. In the last 2 weeks he has been a nightmare to get out of bed in the morning so I end up having to do the horses on my own. But what amazes me is how furiously angry this is making me now.
Is it just pregnancy hormones or am I waking up to the fact he's not perfect.

Ria_Rose

One of the girls on here once quoted something which might be appropriate here:

Maybe he just doesn't realise the awesome amount of responsibility he is taking on. It's clearly something that is bothering you (hormons or not) so you need to find time when you are feeling calm to talk him rationally about your fears.

ryder

No one is perfect, being pregnant just makes things seem worse. I am an eventer and I compete alot, my horse is 13 and at her peak, I have been a total hormonal nightmare because I cant event her this summer!!! I still ride and train right now and jump the odd time, but thats it.

If the horses and horse business are yours then that is likely why he isnt as enthusiastic about it as you are. I know they are alot of work because im also in the equine business... On top of working in a hospital !!!

Does your SO have another job other then helping you?

Ive been really annoyed and pissed at my SO too because he is home more and I feel he shoud be doing more house work, and hes not. He sucks at it too lol.

rae05

Oh Lord HELP me. I hope its just our horomones because my relationship has turned into a COMPLETE nightmare as well. Everything he does, he's driving me crazy. Now, he isn't exactly being the nicest either, but I pretty much feel like I could have driven him to that point because I've turned into a ruthless girlfriend from hell. I think its the horomones, and hopefully both of our relationships will go back to normal in the next few weeks haha.

jackie.d

i bite niks head of everyday *snikker* i usually end up in tears after though.. he usually just says *oh.. what have i let myself in for* lol. i havnt let him near me either.. cant stand the thought of bein intimate at the mo. dont worry about it, just ask him if he realises what you are going through, mentally, emotionally and physically. if he doesnt make him understand. tell him everything you are feeling. xxx