Maybe things will work out!

Maybe he's just scared and worried about how you're going to cope?? How long have you been together? The things he said are totally out of order but fear can do strange things to people. Have you managed to talk to him since the argument? It's be a real shame if you do split. like you say, its not the baby's fault and he/she deserves to have both parents around.

Just remember this: Any fool with a dick can make a baby but it takes a real man to be a father

Good luck

I don't know what to say.You are still very early in your pregnancy and maybe he doesn't see this baby as his child because of it...
Now,you are not to blame in this situation,I personally think he has to be the one to come around and apologize to you...
I know you had everything planned out but life has its weird ways and it doesn't mean that they're not right for you.Everything happens for a reason.
You're young,accept your situation the way it is now and then in a few years you can save up and go back to school...nothing is ruined,it's just gonna happen differently...
Thinking of you....

Oh no! I really hope it all works out ok for you. He's text about a baby name so maybe he's rethinking everything he's said to you. I really hope he regrets what he's said and things work out ok xxx

It very well maybe that he is trying to make peace, but one cannot let this situation be. It needs to be discussed between the both of you and you need to tell him how he made you feel.

Darling i dont know what to say, im so sorry, he doesnt deserve you

Hey sweetheart. I'm so sorry to hear things are going so bad right now. If you need someone to talk to, I'll listen. You already have my msn chick so just drop me a line.

As for the your just fat comment, that's not fat, thats a bump, I've seen the pics. He may just be scared....

Men heh! - Sorry guys

I am so sorry. It sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. I don't care if someone is scared, they don't need to be completely disrespectful and actively try to hurt you. You don't deserve that. I know you really love and care about this guy, but I think you should let him know that he can't treat you like garbage and then just act like nothing happened. It is part of being a decent human being, scared or not. One thing i have learned in my life is that people will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. That is not to say you let him treat you like poop, but if you let him continue in this way, he will learn it is okay. I would take some time to go "home" and let everyone clear their heads. If he can't make some changes, you are better off without him. You deserve to be treated like the sweet person you are, and he needs to know that! I hope I wasn't harsh in my opinion, I just hate it when I see good people being hurt by others.

so sorry to hear of the problems, i an suure he is just freaking out at th moment, fingers crossed for you to get back together, if that is what you both want.
x

I'm at home 8 hours away from him now for the next few weeks. I think thats why he dared to say what he said, because I wasn't within hitting distance haha.

I've found a place to stay on a moment's notice if I do need to leave for good, so that's good.

We've spoken a couple of times and we've stopped the actual arguing part, but I am still really angry and upset with him. I think once I go back after this break, I'm going to see how I feel around him.

Erm- I know its a bump, its hard as a rock hah Not much squish goin on there!!