My OH has said a lot of the sames things to me. He may or may not truly mean them. I'd suggest giving him and you a day or two to calm down before dropping out of school and moving back home. This is an emotional time for both of you and sometimes that can get the better of even the best of men.

myself and my ex had many ups and downs when i was pregnant resulting in lots of nasty situations similar to yours now, but eventually e both got our head around things things got better and we did become a happy family, he is a doting father and i wouldnt take tht away from him, we did grow apart and i left but just remember the men do go through problems just like we do trying to adapt....

if hes a total wan*er though maye your best rid of him now, have your little bundle of joy and make a fresh start?

h x

I'm going to give it some time to blow over. But as of right now, we aren't together. I'm not going to try to force him to be in the child's life if he doesn't want to be there. And I'm not going to bring the baby up in an environment where its parents cant get along

I just wish we could just be happy and both be excited about this. It doesn't come natural to me to understand WHY he isn't excited. I'm pretty much born to be a mom, and I guess I just can't wrap my head around why someone would not want a child.

I don't know what to say.

If your OH is serious, then you're far better off without him anyway.

it takes men a while.... i hope it works out

I'm so sorry. I know with both of my pregnancies my OH has said "we can't have this baby.. you need to have an abortion" blah blah blah.. & then all of a sudden he was really excited about it. With my first pregnancy he wouldn't come round to the idea for about 3 months. He loves being a dad now & can't wait until this baby comes. Maybe your OH just needs time to get his head round it?

I really hope things work out for you..

Oh honey, I don't know what to say I'm so sorry. Your in my thoughts, I hope he comes to his senses and stops behaving like that.

I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through. All I can say is to offer big

I hope things sort themselves soon x

Oh sweetie

What on earth has got into him!! If he is going to be an ass its better you found out now rather than once the baby comes along