16mumtobe

rite im going to have a rant now. my OH mum is being a total bitch. he moved up north to live with me becuase we couldnt deal with a long distance realtionship anymore and of course i was pregnant. anyway he left his bike behind at his mums and said that he would be back to get it. now im going to give you al lil bit of history his mum has been taking drugs most of my OH'S life and she used to hit him until he wet himself. so i cant understand y he trusted her with his bike in the first place!! well anyway she rand him and told him his £300 bike had been stolen so he said fair enuf its not your fault. bt he then found out through a friend that she had sold it for £50 to feed her habit. when he confronted her she tryed to deny it and then owned up. I mean what kind of mother steals off her own son. Ever since she found out i was preggers she hasnt asked how me and the baby are doing once and is always very cold towards me. anyway this is the bit that realli upset me she rang james last night and somehow got on the subject of my pregancy and my OH explained that i was very tearfull and very hormonal. and she goes " well she is doing that for your attention becuase you dont get that until the baby is born and its called the baby blues" well i know yiu can get the baby blues after a baby but i also know women get very emotinal during the pregnancy aswell. and then she went onto say "well she is pulling the wool over your eyes" that reali set me off and i started crying. i dont know why but i just did. ARRRRRRRRRRGH sorry for the rant i know it was a long one bt i feel better after that
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rae05

What a b*tch. I'd just ignore her, because she's crazy.

My OH's mom hasn't bothered to ask about me or my baby either.

16mumtobe

i know its like they resent you for taking their lil boys away. and i am reali uneasy about her seeing the baby because she is still on drugs but i dont know how my OH will feel about that

Jinty

So sorry you guys you know your the pregnant one you dont have to put up with this. This is the time of your life when you can do nothing wrong Ignore her or even say you dont want her involved with your baby. I'm sure i wouldn't want my baby to be involved with someone that would sell their own childs bike for drugs! Its disgusting!
Well just remember you don't need the stress

polo_princess

Aww what a cow, i wouldnt let her near the baby if she's a druggie anyway, OH's mum or not.

Is that really an example to set your grandchild?

16mumtobe

excalty i mean i dont have a problems with the baby seeing my OH's grandparents but i am seriously going to make it clear that i dont want him mum near my child i mean what kind of mother would i be if i let someone that messed up to be part of our childs life. i mean she used to hit her own son so what would stop her hitting her sons lil one
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Mervs Mum

She's using diversion tactics.....she's saying stuff about you to try to make you look bad in an attempt to stop him from remembering what a cow she is.



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16mumtobe

yer it seem like it. love the ignore icon lol ha ha
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leeanne

Unfortunately, with those on drugs, their only love is the drug and they will stoop at nothing to get their next fix. Drugs are all they think of.

Do not take anything personally. She has a sickness, unfortunately, and will always be the way she is unless she gets off the drugs.

vicky

aww hun, try and ignore her she doesn't know what she is talking about, i would talk to you OH about how you are feeling.